Too often we rush through life. We speed through our neighborhoods and cities without truly seeing what we’re passing. We don’t have time for friends, and because of that when we truly need a friend no one is around. In the Amish community, travel is done at the speed of a buggy. They attend church with those who live closest to them. They help a neighbor, knowing they will have a day when help is needed. And because of that, peace comes. It’s peaceful to wave at a friend as your buggy travels past her home. It’s even more peaceful knowing that your friend has your back.
What inspiration can we get from the Amish to live a slower and more peaceful life?
Decide what’s important.
Make a list of three things important to your family, your job, and in your life. Years ago my husband and I decided to make dinnertime a priority. We gather our children (and sometimes friends) around the dinner table nearly every night. We protect our evenings. We don’t sign up our kids for many activities because knowing the people around the dinner table is more important. What is important to you? Too often we fill our days with too much and because of this we are always in a hurry. When you focus on the most important things you’ll give up much busyness.
Do less each day {yet invite others to join you}.
Efficiency and accomplishment are prized in our society, but crossing off a to-do list isn’t as meaningful as connecting with others. The Amish appreciate family farms because they’re able to work side-by-side with their children. Even preschoolers are taught how to work and have responsibilities. Mothers don’t hurry through a chore. They do it at child-speed, knowing that their child’s help will someday lighten their load. The Amish also gather for tasks, such as canning, cooking, and quilting. They focus on one big thing and do it together. This brings peace to their schedule and their hearts.
Simplify your choices.
The Amish wear the same type of clothing. They don’t fill their lives with media entertainment. They cook the same recipes that their parents and grandparents cooked, which means they don’t waste time trying new things. It takes time to make choices, to try new things, and to follow the latest fads. Instead, pick fashion based on function rather than fads. Make a small list of favorite recipes. Spend time with a few favorite books. You’ll be surprised by how much time you’ll find!
Be thankful.
Instead of being busy trying to get more things—or feeling anxious by what we don’t have—thankfulness brings an inner joy. Today try a new phrase, “I have all I need, and I thank God for that.” God had given us so much, and when we take time to thank Him peace comes.
How do you slow down and welcome peace into your daily routine? Share in the comment section below!
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I slow down my life by spending time in God’s Word every morning and in the afternoon I sit in my living room and just watched the clouds go by. At the end of my day I pray for my family and friends as I prepare my mind for sleep.
That’s awesome Polly!
My life revolves around my kids’ education and almost daily soccer practice and games. It’s not slow nor peaceful, but when at least one of your children dreams of playing in the World Cup, the family sacrifices meals around the table and a clean house. Unfortunately we also have little time for friends (for parents or kids). We do, however, make time for birthday parties, both attending and hosting. And to me, it’s worth it.
Sharon, I have 8 kids at home so I understand. There are different seasons of life. It sounds like you’re making choices to benefit your family. That’s so important!
Thank you for sharing on this subject. I am going to take the time to really pray through and write down our convictions in each area you mentioned. It is easier saying no to things when you have something already settled in your convictions, as you expressed so well. Of course God can always intervene – but as we are not so rushed— we are more apt to hear His voice and not miss what He is asking or telling us. I’ve been practicing enjoying each moment with my family/ even when chores are involved. This has really helped me to treasure everyone more and not take simple things for granted- like being able to bake a cake. I also have to add how much I love your phrase at the beginning, “Do less each day, yet invite others to join you!” That’s discipleship! Love it!! Agree completely! Thank you!