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February 2, 2016 by Tricia Goyer 76 Comments

Simple Ways to Fill Your Home with Love

Let’s talk about how we can have a lifegiving home. Be encouraged by these simple ways to fill your home with love…

 

As a homeschooling mom, I’ve had kids at home for 30+ years. This means noisy days, busy days, and these-kids-are-giving-me-a-headache days.

With our adopted little ones I’m looking at another 8 years of homeschooling and having kids at home. Does that seem overwhelming? It would have been if I hadn’t discovered something amazing: JOY!

Over the last year, God has been speaking to my heart and encouraging me to find joy in everyday living.

Joy even though the laundry is piled high.
Joy even though the kids are cranky.
Joy when work deadlines press.
Joy when I have a headache, when my feet hurt, and when I just want a nap. (Which happens often!)

Easier said than done, right? Each day offers new challenges and struggles to find and keep joy alive in your household. It’s something I’m continually challenged with being a wife and mother and why I’m so excited for the release of The Lifegiving Home by Sally and Sarah Clarkson.

A mother and daughter writing team, Sally and Sarah share their story and advice on how to make your home more than 4 walls and a roof … a haven of warmth, rest, and joy … the one place where you and your family can’t wait to be. Every day of your family’s life can be as special and important to you as it already is to God.

The home I raise my children in needs be one overflowing with love, grace, forgiveness, peace, and joy. This kind of home doesn’t just happen magically. It needs to be a daily choice to model and nurture a lifegiving home. I LOVE Sally’s prayer for her children and it is my hope as well:

Give foundations of strength and inspiration to these precious ones, but give them wings as well. Prepare them to take risks, to live by faith, so that they can take the messages and cherished values they learned at home and share them with a hurting world. And so our home became a launching pad, a place of blessing, as we sent our beloved children on their way—hopefully strong, whole, and secure in the ideals, faith, and values that truly matter.

What makes The Lifegiving Home so unique is how Sally and Sarah walk through each month of the year and share specific ways you can celebrate togetherness and create special memories for your children. For February, Sally focuses on giving love. From homemade treats to hand-picked flowers, look for extra-special ways to pour love on those in your household.

Quote from The Lifegiving Home by Sally Clarkson - read the blog post by Tricia Goyer on Simple Ways to Fill Your Home With Love

 

Here are a few ways you can love on your family this month:

  • Write a special note for each member of your family and hides them in their lunches
  • Plan a craft night and make keepsakes you’ll cherish for years to come
  • Surprise your family members with breakfast in bed
  • Have everyone write down one thing you do that makes them feel extra-special. Then do it!
  • Have a date night with each kid and do something they love
  • Spend a Saturday baking cookies and treats together and deliver them to loved ones
  • Dedicate a night each week to pray together as a family
  • Use the concordance in your Bible to look up verses about God’s love. Read a verse or two each day before dinner.

What ways will you foster a lifegiving home this month?

Home should be the very best place to ever be. #LifeGivingHomeBook

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  1. Annie JC says

    February 2, 2016 at 11:26 am

    We have this game night we try to have every time we get together. For my immediate family, we have a movie/tv series night and we make popcorn or some kind of snack (can’t be healthy!) and just enjoy our time together.

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    • Tricia Goyer says

      February 3, 2016 at 8:30 am

      That sounds so fun!

      Reply
  2. Justina Baisley Wilson says

    February 2, 2016 at 11:36 am

    I fill My house by Playing Board Games, Reading to each other and every weekend one of us makes a special meal for everyone!

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    • Tricia Goyer says

      February 3, 2016 at 8:34 am

      We love board games, too!

      Reply
  3. Stephanie H. says

    February 2, 2016 at 11:57 am

    I make a special dinner and dessert for my family every year on Valentine’s Day!

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    • Tricia Goyer says

      February 3, 2016 at 8:35 am

      Yum!

      Reply
  4. Robyn says

    February 2, 2016 at 2:07 pm

    Im showing my love to my family by praying for each of them, and doing what I can to bring peace and harmony in my home by my attitude, showing love by the way I act and respond to my family and love unconditonally.

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    • Tricia Goyer says

      February 3, 2016 at 12:52 pm

      Our attitudes make all the difference!

      Reply
  5. Brenda says

    February 2, 2016 at 2:40 pm

    I can show love to my family by making their favorite meals, praying for them and showing them unconditional love.

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    • Tricia Goyer says

      February 3, 2016 at 12:53 pm

      Beautiful.

      Reply
  6. Debbie Rhoades says

    February 2, 2016 at 3:05 pm

    I can show love to my family this month by practicing self-control when I am upset or angry, by choosing to be a positive member of the family instead of negative, and to love and pray for my family members.

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    • Tricia Goyer says

      February 4, 2016 at 1:28 pm

      This is something we all need to strive to do!

      Reply
  7. Katherine says

    February 2, 2016 at 8:04 pm

    I do special little things like bring my husband his coffee every morning, make sure my kids have different foods they like stocked up, and keep things cozy and clean even when I don’t feel like it. I love them so much and they are worth the effort!

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    • Tricia Goyer says

      February 4, 2016 at 1:28 pm

      This made me smile!

      Reply
  8. Vicki says

    February 3, 2016 at 7:08 am

    I will make a special Valentine’s dinner with something that each person loves to eat. I am having my husband’s coffee ready every morning when he gets up, and putting “love” notes in lunches! 🙂

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    • Tricia Goyer says

      February 4, 2016 at 1:29 pm

      My kids love love notes! 🙂

      Reply
  9. Shannon says

    February 3, 2016 at 7:32 am

    Simply telling them that I love them!

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    • Tricia Goyer says

      February 4, 2016 at 1:29 pm

      Yes!

      Reply
  10. Kay says

    February 3, 2016 at 9:11 am

    I plan to surprise the kids with a box of chocolates each on Valentines Day.

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    • Tricia Goyer says

      February 4, 2016 at 1:29 pm

      Fun!

      Reply
  11. Lancia E. Smith says

    February 3, 2016 at 9:16 am

    February in Colorado requires some special effort to keep the house full of love when we are feeling more cooped up than usual. My commitment is to be focused on making something beautiful of our family meal times, praying over each individual on a daily basis, and really attending to keeping our home at peace. That is sometimes much easier said than done but I know with prayer and courage it can be our cultivated reality. Thank you for your encouragement, Tricia!

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    • Tricia Goyer says

      February 4, 2016 at 1:30 pm

      I LOVE the idea of praying over each individual person on a daily basis!

      Reply
  12. Felicia says

    February 3, 2016 at 9:21 am

    I can love my family by being fully “there” when they want to talk when I really want to go to bed! Teens seem to open up at night!

    Reply
    • Tricia Goyer says

      February 4, 2016 at 2:18 pm

      Yes, they always want to talk when I’m ready to crash! LOL

      Reply
  13. Jodi C says

    February 3, 2016 at 9:21 am

    I am going to do this! My girls would LOVE this…

    Spend a Saturday baking cookies and treats together and deliver them to loved ones

    Reply
  14. Ann says

    February 3, 2016 at 9:38 am

    Bedtime stories and prayers . . . continuing on all the way till they’re out of our home.

    Reply
  15. Jen mc says

    February 3, 2016 at 9:40 am

    By loving them with a good attitude and really looking forward to this book!

    Reply
    • Tricia Goyer says

      February 4, 2016 at 2:18 pm

      It’s a great book!

      Reply
  16. Laura says

    February 3, 2016 at 9:40 am

    Thanks for the chance to win!
    I will foster love in my home this month by finding small moments to be fully present with each child individually, hug more, and cultivate an atmosphere of love and laughter. I will surprise them with a dessert/treat and spend more time with them. I will do something for my husband- just the two of us- to foster love and re-connection with him.

    Reply
  17. Lindsey K says

    February 3, 2016 at 9:47 am

    I will show love to my beautiful family this month by trying to be more present, listen with my heart and ears and eyes, read lots of books together, and by playing their favorite games more often! Thank you for the encouragement!

    Reply
  18. Sheila Millinder says

    February 3, 2016 at 10:00 am

    I am planning for Valentine’s Day to cut out red hearts and write love is…..on them and place them in different everyday places in our home to show my family all the ways I see love in our everyday.

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  19. Jennifer Novakoski says

    February 3, 2016 at 10:02 am

    I will show love by thinking before I speak. Lately it seems more negative than positive reinforcement has been coming out of my mouth….and I then see it mirrored in my children to one another. We do movie nights and Sunday night meetings over dinner…but i’m seeing that that alone means nothing if my words do not match what we want for them.

    Reply
  20. Lindsey Holan says

    February 3, 2016 at 10:07 am

    I love the practical ideas! I plan on making surprise Valentine’s Day cards for my two girls (age 6 & 8). Acts of service and words of affirmation are two of their strongest loves languages. I also plan on doing a lot of baking (I love using baking to teach math!) to give out to neighbor’s. Our girls also soak up individual dates with us to that is a must this month!

    Reply
  21. Heather C says

    February 3, 2016 at 10:15 am

    We’re making Valentines for our family and preparing some snowman pizzas. We also love reading to one another and will be finding verses about love and how we can share that with others around us.

    Reply
  22. Kaylee says

    February 3, 2016 at 10:16 am

    We are packing up to make another big move so finding the time to spend a few moments with each daughter to really see how she’s doing in the transition will be the heart of our family this month.

    Reply
  23. Paula says

    February 3, 2016 at 10:23 am

    We give gifts on Valentine’s (for siblings to give to each other ) and I cook a pancake breakfast with all their favorites and decorate the kitchen that night before. They love waking up to a hot, fancy breakfast and gifts to open after we eat! It’s such a sweet time and they LOVE giving and plan all year for what to get:)

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  24. Laurie Bergh says

    February 3, 2016 at 10:23 am

    We try to spend as much time as we can doing things together.

    Reply
  25. Heidi brymer says

    February 3, 2016 at 10:39 am

    This is very encouraging. With a 3, 2 & 1 year old there are lots of fun times and lots of crying and fighting. Like you said, easier said than done to find joy in those times! If I find myself getting cranky back at them it’s my red flag to re-focus and not resort to acting the way they are! 🙂 usually singing silly songs and having a dance party puts us all back in a good mood. 🙂

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    • Tricia Goyer says

      February 3, 2016 at 12:14 pm

      Heidi, it’s amazing how when we cheer up they often do, too!

      Reply
  26. Brandi B. says

    February 3, 2016 at 10:54 am

    I show love to my family by having family movie night, we get out fuzzy blankets and snacks and then its snuggle time to watch our favorite movie! I also love planning family game night, we all have so much fun playing board games and cards together! <3

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    • Tricia Goyer says

      February 3, 2016 at 12:12 pm

      Love it!!

      Reply
  27. Sharon says

    February 3, 2016 at 11:27 am

    I LOVE the bring breakfast in bed idea

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    • Tricia Goyer says

      February 3, 2016 at 12:11 pm

      Yes!

      Reply
  28. Sharon says

    February 3, 2016 at 11:31 am

    So many great ideas! I will pray for God to help me see each family member through His eyes, and to show me what things I can do that would be most meaningful to each of them.

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    • Tricia Goyer says

      February 3, 2016 at 12:10 pm

      Yes! Each person is blessed in unique ways. Beautiful!

      Reply
  29. Jeannie says

    February 3, 2016 at 12:19 pm

    My children are 4 and 2, so we do a lot of reading aloud. I’ve recently started reading chapter books at bedtime, and looking forward to the continued storyline has been fun for all of us. We also enjoy doing crafts together, especially when we can make something for Daddy.

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    • Tricia Goyer says

      February 3, 2016 at 12:50 pm

      I love reading books at bedtime!

      Reply
  30. kay says

    February 3, 2016 at 12:21 pm

    When my children were younger we always had a special treasure hunt planned for them on Valentine’s Day! Now that they are older I need to be more creative! This week I plan to create a mystery meal.

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    • Tricia Goyer says

      February 3, 2016 at 12:44 pm

      I love that!

      Reply
  31. Kellie Damron says

    February 3, 2016 at 12:32 pm

    I cannot wait to read this book!

    Reply
    • Tricia Goyer says

      February 3, 2016 at 12:43 pm

      It’s great!

      Reply
  32. Elisabeth says

    February 3, 2016 at 1:02 pm

    Fly halfway around the world to hug, listen, savor.

    Reply
  33. Ashley Primus says

    February 3, 2016 at 1:24 pm

    We celebrate Valentines Day by dressing up and enjoying a special family meal together. We also let our children pick out a gift for one of their siblings. They always look forward to it.

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  34. jana says

    February 3, 2016 at 1:31 pm

    Time together is my famiy’s love language, game nights, snuggle reading, movie nights

    Reply
  35. Amy says

    February 3, 2016 at 1:32 pm

    I homeschool my 4 boys and this month I am trying to be intentional about spending time with each of them, one on one, doing something of their choosing during our school day. It is so easy to get “too busy”!

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  36. Jennifer Lavallee says

    February 3, 2016 at 3:25 pm

    To be kind and spoil them with little valentine treats and cards. I’ll also be writing them each a handwritten note on how much I love them and how much they mean to me.

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    • Tricia Goyer says

      February 3, 2016 at 3:28 pm

      Oh, I love the idea of handwritten notes!

      Reply
  37. Sherry says

    February 3, 2016 at 3:33 pm

    I like to make their favorite foods, and on Valentines Day I make heart shaped foods like egg-in-a-hole, pancakes, pizza, etc. for meals and give them candies/snacks with corny love messages.

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    • Tricia Goyer says

      February 3, 2016 at 5:07 pm

      I bet they love it!

      Reply
  38. Janine says

    February 3, 2016 at 6:44 pm

    By controlling my anger around them, and doing things for them just because.

    Reply
  39. Rachel says

    February 3, 2016 at 8:56 pm

    I will show love to my boys this month by baking with them, an activity that they enjoy participating in that we do not normally take time for.

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    • Tricia Goyer says

      February 4, 2016 at 2:13 pm

      My kids love baking, too!

      Reply
  40. Karie Preston says

    February 3, 2016 at 10:20 pm

    Great article! I show love to my family by leaving encouraging notes for them and praying for them.

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    • Tricia Goyer says

      February 4, 2016 at 2:12 pm

      Oh, fun!

      Reply
  41. Wenona says

    February 4, 2016 at 5:18 am

    I have 2 teens in my house and we really enjoy spending time altogether and talking.

    Reply
  42. Megan says

    February 4, 2016 at 8:31 am

    I’m sending little notes about things I love to do with or about my son in his lunch every day this month. He’s loving it!

    Reply
  43. Rebecca Altman says

    February 4, 2016 at 9:27 am

    One way for me to show love to my family is by spending one-on-one time with each of them. Growing up in a large family, I sometimes felt lost in the crowd (always loved, but sometimes overlooked), so I want to be intentional about spending individual, undistracted time with each child (and my husband, too!) every so often.

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  44. Sarah says

    February 4, 2016 at 12:17 pm

    I think slowing down and giving my girls and my husband my undivided attention is something I can do to show them love. I also want to start scheduling dates with each of them to be intentional about listening and being present in their lives.

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    • Tricia Goyer says

      February 4, 2016 at 2:12 pm

      We do dates with our kids and enjoy them!

      Reply
  45. Emmie says

    February 4, 2016 at 2:10 pm

    I can love on my family by not yelling at them and putting my full trust in God and teaching them to do the same.

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    • Tricia Goyer says

      February 4, 2016 at 2:10 pm

      That’s wonderful!

      Reply
  46. Myriam says

    February 4, 2016 at 6:29 pm

    I would love to win please

    Reply
  47. Laurie says

    February 5, 2016 at 4:12 am

    I would love my family by not being on the computer when they are home so I can be more intentional about giving them my full attention.

    Reply
  48. Lisa says

    February 5, 2016 at 3:12 pm

    One way that I work to foster a loving home has more to do with what I say than what I do. I foster a loving home by working really hard to speak lovingly to my husband and son. One aspect of my vision for our home is that it would be a sanctuary where they feel welcomed, relaxed, and recharged. They’re not going to feel that way if I’m always nagging, yelling, or critical. I certainly do not always get this right!! But it’s something that I am intentional about.

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  49. Amanda Geaney says

    February 6, 2016 at 7:54 am

    In the month of February my husband and I use post-it notes to love on our kids. Every night we write a praise, prayer, or note of encouragement on red or pink post-its and stick them to their bedroom doors. We started this tradition 2 years ago and have continued it because I noticed that the kids had saved all of their hearts. (I find them everywhere when I help them clean their rooms.) When you think about it, who doesn’t like to be reminded that they are loved?

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  50. Jackie Wisherd says

    February 8, 2016 at 8:15 pm

    I am going to travel to see my grandchildren at the end of the month. We always enjoy seeing each other on visits since we live far apart and dont get to see each other every day.

    Reply

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