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Books to Inspire You to Be Strong, Be Brave, And Feel Loved

Today I want to share with you some of my favorite books to inspire you to be strong, be brave, and feel loved.  These are tough times, full of stress and abnormality but these books are sure to encourage you!

Author Tricia Goyer shares some of her favorite books to inspire you to be strong, be brave, and feel loved!
I was so inspired by Holley Gerth’s new book Strong, Brave, Loved. I interviewed Holley last week on Walk It Out. Holley’s devotional book is the one I’m using during my morning quiet time. I also find myself quoting Holley in my Legacy Bible that I’m creating for one of my daughters.  This got me thinking about sharing more books to inspire you…

Need other great books to inspire you to feel Strong, Brave, Loved? These are my top recommendations!

 

Kisses from Katie by Katie Davis

The New York Times bestselling account of a courageous eighteen-year-old from Nashville who gave up every comfort and convenience to become the adoptive mother to thirteen girls in Uganda.
“People from my first home say I’m brave. They tell me I’m strong. They pat me on the back and say, ‘Way to go. Good job.’ But the truth is, I am not really very brave; I am not really very strong, and I am not doing anything spectacular. I am simply doing what God has called me to do as a person who follows Him. He said to feed His sheep and He said to care for ‘the least of these,’ so that’s what I’m doing, with the help of a lot of people who make it possible and in the company of those who make my life worth living”
― Katie J. Davis, Kisses from Katie: A Story of Relentless Love and Redemption

Life, In Spite of Me by Kristen Jane Anderson

Overwhelmed by wave after wave of emotional trauma, Kristen Anderson no longer wanted to live. One January night, determined to end her pain once and for all, the seventeen-year-old lay across train tracks not far from her home and waited to die.
Instead of peace, she found herself immersed in a whole new nightmare.
Before the engineer could bring the train to a stop, thirty-three freight cars passed over her at fifty-five miles per hour. After the train stopped and Kristen realized she was still alive, she looked around—and saw her legs ten feet away.
Surviving her suicide attempt but losing her legs launched Kristen into an even deeper battle with depression and suicidal thoughts, as well as unrelenting physical pain—all from the seat of a wheelchair. But in the midst of her darkest days, Kristen discovered the way to real life and a purpose for living.
For anyone struggling to find the strength to go on, the message of this heart-wrenching yet hope-building book is a clear and extraordinary reminder that even when we give up on life, God doesn’t give up on us.

Plain Faith: A Story of Tragedy, Loss and Leaving the Amish by Ora Jay and Irene Eash

 

This is the true story of Ora-Jay and Irene Eash, Amish farmers from northwest Montana whose lives changed in an instant when a semi-truck struck the family buggy, killing their two young daughters.
After the accident, the couple turned to their Amish community for comfort. Yet, they remained haunted by the thought that they might not see their girls again in heaven. Would their deeds be good enough? Eventually, Ora-Jay and Irene learned that grace―not works―was enough to ensure their place in eternity. But with that knowledge came the realization that they could no longer live in an Amish community that didn’t share this precious belief. Could they sever their connection to the Amish family they loved?
This is the story of their journey to the hope that is heaven, a hope stronger than the loss of children, family, and a way of life. Fans of Amish fiction will appreciate such a real-life look into the Amish community, co-written by bestselling author Tricia Goyer, and readers of all kinds will resonate with this tale of courage, resilience, and the redemption found in the grace of Jesus.

Walk to Beautiful: The Power of Love and a Homeless Kid Who Found the Way by Jimmy Wayne

 

Imagine yourself a thirteen-year-old, hundreds of miles away from home, in a strange city, and your mom leaves you at a bus station parking lot and drives off into the night with her lover.
That’s the real-life story of country music star Jimmy Wayne. It’s a miracle that Jimmy survived being hungry and homeless, bouncing in and out of the foster care system, and sleeping in the streets. But he didn’t just overcome great adversity in his life. He now uses his country music platform to help children everywhere, especially teenagers in foster care who are about to age out of the system.
Walk to Beautiful is the powerfully emotive account of Jimmy’s horrendous childhood and the love shown him by Russell and Bea Costner, the elderly couple who gave him a stable home and provided the chance to complete his education. Jimmy says of Bea, “She changed every cell in my body.”
It also chronicles Jimmy’s rise to fame in the music industry and his Meet Me Halfway campaign: his walk halfway across America, 1,700 miles from Nashville to Phoenix, to raise awareness for foster kids.

The Hiding Place by Corrie ten Boom

“Every experience God gives us . . . is the perfect preparation for the future only He can see.”–Corrie ten Boom
If you haven’t read this before, of course, this is a must-have in my list of books to inspire you.
Corrie ten Boom was a Dutch watchmaker who became a heroine of the Resistance, a survivor of Hitler’s concentration camps. She is one of the most remarkable evangelists of the twentieth century. In World War II she and her family risked their lives to help Jews and underground workers escape from the Nazis. For their work, they were tested in the infamous Nazi death camps. Only Corrie among her family survived to tell the story of how faith ultimately triumphs over evil.
This is the riveting account of how Corrie and her family were able to save many of God’s chosen people. For 35 years millions have seen that there is no pit so deep that God’s love is not deeper still. Now The Hiding Place has been repackaged for a new generation of readers. It continues to declare that God’s love will overcome, heal, and restore.
Enjoy these great books to inspire you, and tell me about your favorites!

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One Man’s Story of Hope Shares The Gospel

One Man’s Story of Hope

It’s taken me a while to process some hard news that I received recently. I received a text message that read, “Dad left us in favor of heaven.” Thomas Graumann is now in the arms of Jesus. I’m crying, knowing what a joy that is for him!

As you know, I wrote Tom’s story in Twice-Rescued Child.​

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One Man’s Story of Hope

 

Aged eight, Thomas Graumann excitedly boarded a train in Prague, Czechoslovakia, to embark on what he believed was a three-month holiday. “Go to Britain, learn English, and when the Germans leave, you can come home again,’ his mother assured him. Thomas carried two suitcases and a bag of food. At the time he knew his country had been taken over by the Germans and now was under Nazi control. That was the last he would see of his mother and most of his Jewish family, who died in concentration camps.

This was Thomas’ first rescue, aboard what became known as the Kindertransport.

His second came a year later when an evangelist from the Scottish village he was taken to for safety shared the good news of Jesus Christ with him. Saying a prayer on bent knee, Thomas’ soul was rescued, and he soon dedicated himself to missionary service, which he fulfilled as an adult in the Philippines, eventually moving to the U.S.

 

​It's amazing how One Man's Story of Hope Shares The Gospel. For years Tom had written down the story of his life--my job was to bring it to life...

 

 

​I am so HONORED to have known Tom and to have written his story. I first heard his story in 2008, and it didn’t leave me. I had it on my to-do list for YEARS, “Reach out to Thomas Graumann.” He was a Jewish child who was rescued from death’s grasp, and he lived his life sharing true HOPE.

 

 

Tom as a baby with his father. All his family died in concentration camps.

 

Answered Prayers

A couple of years ago, I was praying, and I felt God say, “Contact Thomas Graumann NOW.” I reached out to the Czech pastor’s wife, who first told me his story, and I got Tom’s phone number again and called him out of the blue.​

“Tom, I’d love to write your story.”

“Yes, good. I’ve been praying about that.” He wasn’t surprised at all! I smile just thinking about that. Tom had worked for years writing down all the information about his life, at the urging of his son Paul. My job was to bring it to life on the page.

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Tom, my friend Robin Gunn, and me July 2019

 

God Makes A Way

 

I set up a weekly phone date with Tom, who lived in Colorado. I’d call him every Thursday at 3:00 p.m. I’d go over different parts of his story, and he’d fill in more details for me. His memory was so sharp! He could remember dates and names throughout the nearly nine decades of his life.

I talked to my agent Janet Grant and told her, “We need to find a publisher for this book.” She found one in the UK. They wanted to release it Summer of 2020. I asked if they could release it sooner. I promised to finish it fast. I did, and they released it in the UK October 2019 and the United States in January 2020. Isn’t God good?!

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One Man’s Story of Hope Shares The Gospel

 

Tears fill my eyes, knowing this: Tom held his story, his book, in his hands. He knew that his story would go on and that many others around the world would hear about the gospel. It’s already being translated into more languages. Tom is still a missionary even now!

I am so thankful I listened to that stirring that said, “Contact Tom Graumann NOW.” My life is richer for it.

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A story of hope

 

Purchase Tom’s Story

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​One Man’s Story of Hope

God, indeed, had wonderful plans for this rescued child! You can watch my interviews with Tom here:

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Part 1 – One Jewish family

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Part 2 – Kindertransport
Part 3 – Learning of concentration camps
Part 4 – Returning to the Czech Republic
Part 5 – Meeting the Man Who Saved Him

Bonus with Robin Gunn, who smuggled Czech Bibles for Brother Andrew

 

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In honor of the 75th Anniversary of the Victory in Europe and the end of World War II, my Liberators series novels are all on sale now!

Learn more about the true tales of the Greatest Generation and what they faced during WWII in Europe against Nazi Germany. These amazing men and women gave so much and faced enormous personal sacrifice to stop the horror of Hitler.

It’s been such an honor for me to get to know so many of them and to hear their stories. Now you can read the stories inspired by the real-life events from their time in WWII.

 


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Dawn of a Thousand Nights https://amzn.to/2YdwlJx

Night Song https://amzn.to/3bMAvvU

Remembering You https://amzn.to/2VK0Uoh

 

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The Story Behind From Dust And Ashes

 

 

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Balancing Working From Home With School At Home

Balancing Working From Home With School At Home

Are you trying to balance working from home with homeschooling kids? It’s hard, right? Here are some things that I hope can help!

Know It’s Possible

First of all, know that working from home and schooling at home are both possible. It’s true! In the almost three decades that I’ve been homeschooling my ten (yes, 10!) kids, I’ve written over 70 books. I’ve also learned a lot along the way.

When I first started homeschooling, I had an idea of what it would look like. But I still had questions. What were the homeschool basics I’d need to know? With no one to guide me, I did what I assumed was the norm–I ordered a huge box of curriculum, bought old school desks, and prepared to do school in my home. That started out alright, but I’ve learned so many things along the way that have made our journey more successful.

Now, I teach my children at the kitchen table, and I think they’re getting a great education. We don’t have a dedicated school room, and, yes, there is a multiple student-to-teacher ratio, but those things don’t seem to matter. Those things don’t impact how well my children learn. My kids live in a learning environment, which means their education continues long after we clock out of our school hours.

So, what’s the key to balancing working from home and helping your kids with school? Let me share what I’ve learned through many years of trial and error.

 

Intentional Windows of Time

Schedule windows of time that keep things moving. I wake up before my kids just so I can have an hour (sometimes more) of uninterrupted work before they get up. During this time I might sit outside on my porch and drink a cup of tea while I pray or read my devotional for the day. On some days I know I have to start with a writing project I need to finish. Just having this first time of the day set aside for myself gives me the peace to move forward as a work-at-home and school-at-home mom.

 

 

When they get up, I help my kids get ready and give them individualized attention for about three hours. After that, they can usually work independently, and I do my work as they continue working on their own. It’s impossible to do both at once so don’t set yourself up for frustration or failure. It’s okay to exclude one or the other at certain times.

 

3 Ways to Help Kids Stay Motivated To Do School Work

 

 

As we move through the days ahead I find one question seems to be repeated–how do I keep kids motivated to do their school work day in and day out? Here are some things I’ve found help keep kids moving in the right direction and getting things accomplished.

 

1. Create Incentives

Everyone likes to look forward to a special treat. Tell your child that if they can do 45 minutes of work, they can help you bake cookies or some other activity they will look forward to. If kids know something fun is coming, they are more likely to do the work you’re asking them to do. My children enjoy playing board games with me. If I want to motivate them through a particularly difficult section of study sometimes I will let them chose a game in advance. When they get discouraged or distracted I can remind them that I’m looking forward to playing the game with them. Building excitement helps keep them focused on the task at hand.

 

2. Approach Work Creatively

For assignments that don’t involve written work that has to be turned in, don’t be afraid to let them do the work differently. For instance, if your daughter has to answer a set of questions but doesn’t have to turn in the written work, sit down with her and ask her the questions out loud, and ask her to just speak her answers back to you. Not everything has to be written down for your child to learn. This is especially helpful for auditory learners.

For children with extra energy, let them stand, jump, or walk through the house while reciting the answers or subject they’re studying. Can you take a walk around the block and identify colors, numbers, or plants that might apply to their school work? Don’t be afraid to think outside the box when it comes to learning. The more ways you can integrate the topic into their lives, the more chance that the information will embed itself deeply into their brains. That’s a well-rounded education!

 

3. Take A Break

You, and your child, both need breaks! For younger children, don’t try to work for longer than 25-30 minutes without giving them a break. Even traditional school days are broken up into “chunks” of learning and breaks. The older the child, the longer the chunks of learning can be. No one expects you or your child to sit eight hours a day in strict reading, writing, or arithmetic lessons. That would be mind-numbing.

Even parents need a break during the day. Can you have older kids step in to supervise younger kids during art, music, or reading? Break up subjects with educational videos on the topic to give everyone a mental break. Could your child call a grandparent or family friend who might be able to talk with them about a subject while you load the dishwasher or have an afternoon cup of tea?

Even a five-minute walk around the yard, or ten minutes to check Instagram, can give you a mental reset you both need to start again fresh and ready to tackle the next subject. Never underestimate the power of closing the door to your bedroom for five minutes to pray.

 

Balancing Working From Home With School At Home

Although you might be facing fear and anxiety about schooling at home, don’t dwell on those feelings. The most important thing to remember during this time is that what your children need most is your love and support. Learning can take place in many ways. But if our kids feel loved and safe, they will continue to excel during this (and any other) situation that comes along. Remember, you are your child’s biggest fan–show them you believe in them and that you’re there to help them through this. Together, we will succeed!

 

Here are more resources I think will help you as you work at home and school at home:

 

My Stay Home Journals Help Kids Focus on Good Things

My Stay Home Journal by Tricia Goyer

 

During this time, kids need a place to think, write, or draw what is going on in their hearts and minds so I created these journals to provide kids a special place to record their experiences. I like the sound of “stay home.” It’s a way to focus on the good during a hard time. It’s a great way to help your kids think about what good things may be happening during this time and what they are looking forward to when it’s “safe” for us to return to normal life.

The pages are set up so older kids can write their thoughts (writing practice!) and younger kids can draw their thoughts or have a parent write for them. Need inspiration? Check your Facebook or personal calendar to help think about what your family was doing at certain points on the timeline. I made the insides colored as well so these can be special keepsakes of this great pause in our history.
I’ve designed several styles so every child can have a journal that makes them feel special.
 

You can find all the journals I’ve created here: Stay Home Journals

I even created a FREE printable version. Feel free to share with a teacher or someone who might need it.

Free Stay Home Journal: https://bit.ly/freejournalforkids

 

Free Resources (Not just for kids!) 

My team has put together a list of over 200 amazing resources and courses for you. This is a load of great education for all ages. From the tiny tots to the parents, there are some wonderful sites on this PDF. Yes, you can go to the Smithsonian, tour Yellowstone, or travel to Paris without leaving home!

I’m especially looking forward to every Wednesday, where there will be free, online, worship-painting classes with Blossoming Hearts Studio on Facebook. And don’t forget about the free Lamplighter audiobook too!

The list also has sites for every homeschooling subject you can imagine. Pass this on and share it with your friends: Free Resources for The Whole Family.pdf

 

 

 

Hope and Refreshment for Homeschooling Parents

Need more ideas and advice on homeschooling? Pick up a copy of Homeschool Basics. Receive tried-and-true homeschool advice from veteran homeschooling moms Tricia Goyer and Kristi Clover. We dish out practical help on getting started and staying the course. Homeschool Basics will remind you that the best homeschooling starts with the heart. Packed with ideas to help you push aside your fears and raise kids who will grow to be life-long learners.

Kristi and I believe that homeschooling can transform your life, your home, and your family. Mostly, we believe homeschool can truly prepare your children for the life God’s called them to live.

 

Get Homeschool Basics on Amazon Now!

 

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Advice and Encouragement for Schooling At Home

Are you struggling with finding hope and help for school at home? I recently talked with Focus on The Family and offered my thoughts and experience with being a homeschool mom of over 25 years. You may have fear and anxiety during this time, I understand and I want to help you get your own heart-centered so you can have peace and be the best parent and teacher you can.

 

Listen in to my Interview on Focus on the Family

 

 

And here’s a PDF with more Work-at-Home Tips!

 

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Over 200 Free Resources and Help for “Schooling at Home”

Over 200 Free Resources and Help for "Schooling at Home"

Over 200 Free Resources and Help for “Schooling at Home”

 

I’ve been thinking about your family during this time and found Over 200 Free Resources and Help for “Schooling at Home” to share. I’m hoping this will help you thrive as a family while at home this spring.

It’s been a busy, hopping week over here. Even with all the crazy quarantine schedules, life in the Goyer house never has a dull moment! It’s been so much fun watching all of your #familyeasteropenhouse posts and seeing the ways you are making memories with your family. I am so thankful we live in a time where, because of the internet, we can still connect. Projects like this are such a fun way to celebrate! Here are a few photos of some of our crafts and projects for #familyeasteropenhouse.

First, we made resurrection gardens. (You can find the link on how to make one .) We planted clover, and hopefully, by Sunday, it’ll look like a hillside with an empty tomb!

 


The kids also decorated eggs Martha Stewart style! We used food dye, paper towels, water, and vinegar. You can see the how-to .

Free Resources and Help for “Schooling at Home”

Schooling at Home?


How are things with your kids at home? Whether you are a seasoned homeschooler, or your children have just come home because of Covid-19, this is a challenging time. Remember, this is out of the ordinary for even those of us who are used to having our children home during the day. We have co-ops, and sports and extra-curricular activities that are all at a halt. Field trips and loads of other events have been canceled. It’s surreal for all of us. Don’t imagine that this is what homeschooling is always like.

For us mamas especially, it’s important to make sure your mental health is being cared for. Keeping up with some sort of routine, while finding your new normal, is important. Spend LOTS of time outside.

Seriously, it is a huge blessing this is all happening in the spring, with the gorgeous weather. Can you imagine if this was going on during the dead of winter? What a mercy that we can take a walk, get outside in the sunshine, and enjoy this weather and God’s creation.

Free Resources (Not just for kids!) Plus Help for “Schooling at Home” 

My team has put together a list of over 200 amazing resources and courses for you. This is a load of great education for all ages. From the tiny tots to the parents, there are some wonderful sites on this PDF. Yes, you can go to the Smithsonian, tour Yellowstone or travel to Paris without leaving home!

I’m especially looking forward to every Wednesday, where there will be free, online, worship-painting classes with Blossoming Hearts Studio on Facebook. And don’t forget about the free Lamplighter audiobook too!

The list also has sites for every homeschooling subject you can imagine. Pass this on and share it with your friends: Free Resources for The Whole Family.pdf

 

 

Click to download the FREE PDF.

 

 


Recently, I did a value-packed video that answers tons of questions and has loads of How-To’s. This comes from my personal experience homeschooling, working from home, and having a mega-sized family. More How-Tos


You might also enjoy the book that Kristi Clover and I wrote . Combined between the two of us we have met with just about every situation. 

homeschooling basics

 

Over 200 Free Resources and Help for “Schooling at Home”

 


Recently on , I chatted with my friend Kathi Lipp about her book This book is about preparing your heart and home for any crisis big or small. Maybe you have prepared for a crisis. Maybe you wish you had done better. Kathi and I talk about her wake-up call of NOT being prepared during their house fire. It’s then she realized how she hadn’t prepared for crisis. And now it’s Kathi’s goal to help you deal with the current crisis with confidence. I loved this chat because it helped me to see how I was unprepared for our current crisis.

You can listen on iTunes, your favorite podcast app, or .

The of Ready for Anything was made available from her publisher released it two months early!

Walk It Out Episode #93 Ready for Anything with Kathi Lipp! How can you be prepared for anything? Kathi Lipp and I chat about it on this week's episode! You don't want to miss it! Enjoy!

 

Her book is amazing, and Kathi is offering loads of PRE-ORDER BONUSES if you order by May 19.

Ready For Anything

 

 

Then after you have ordered, fill out the form below for your free bonuses:

 

FREE BONUSES


Focus on the Family

Tuesday, I was interviewed on Focus on the Family about homeschooling. They are getting SO many questions, they put the episode up in two days!

I know so many need encouragement right now. I pray that the words that I spoke will be a breath-of-hope and a shot-in-the-arm of inspiration.

You can listen.


This is a throwback, but from what I’ve been seeing online … this interview about how to help angry kids might be just what you need right now. You can listen to the interview .

Rebel Parenting

Recipe Cards

Oh and one last thing! Remember a couple of newsletters ago where we talked about rationing? Here are the recipe cards my team made for you!

Download the recipe cards and .

 

 

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Kids’ Journals Help Children Focus on Good Things

My Stay Home Journals Help Kids Focus on Good Things

Stay Home Journals help kids focus on good things.

During this time, kids need a place to think, write, or draw what is going on in their hearts and minds. Writing helps kids process emotions. Writing moves thoughts from a kids’ emotional brain to his thinking brain, allowing him to process all that’s going on.

I believe in this so much, I’ve created Stay Home Journals for kids.


Get your FREE Journal here!

Stay Home Tiger (1)

 

Angry Kids Are Often Anxious Kids

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Through the process of adopting seven children, we went to a lot of therapy, and I read a lot of books. (I even wrote one: Calming Angry Kids!)​ I learned that when a child’s emotional brain is spiked, her thinking brain is turned off. This is important to remember.

“A child who appears to be oppositional or aggressive may be reacting to anxiety—anxiety he may, depending on his age, not be able to articulate effectively, or not even fully recognize that he’s feeling. Especially in younger kids with anxiety you might see freezing and clinging kind of behavior,” says Dr. Rachel Busman, a clinical psychologist at the Child Mind Institute, “but you can also see tantrums and complete meltdowns.’” https://childmind.org/article/how-anxiety-leads-to-disruptive-behavior/​
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When your child is anxious, worried, angry or confused, it will be impossible for your child to learn. Stay Home Journals help kids process their emotions, capture memories, and focus on good things.

 

Help Kids Focus on Good Things

As I sat down to create these journals, I liked the sound of “stay home.” It’s a way to focus on the good during a hard time. It’s a great way to help your kids think about what good things may be happening during this time and what they are looking forward to when it’s “safe” for us to return to normal life. These lovely journals have full-color interior because I want them to be special keepsakes.
The pages are set up so older kids can write their thoughts (writing practice!) and younger kids can draw their thoughts or have a parent write for them.
Help Kids Process Emotions and Capture Memories. {Writing practice is a bonus!)

 

Stay Home Journal: Fancy Kitten

 

Stay Home Journal: Dalmation

 

Stay Home Journal Dragon

 

Stay Home Journal Goat

 

help kids focus on good things

You can find all Stay Home Journals here.

I hope these journals will be a support and a joy to your family!

 

More Free Resources! (Not just for kids!)

My team has put together a list of over 200 amazing resources and courses for you. This is a load of great educational resources for all ages. From the tiny tots to the parents, there are some wonderful sites on this PDF. Yes, you can go to the Smithsonian, tour Yellowstone, or travel to Paris without leaving home!

I’m especially looking forward to every Wednesday, where there will be free, online, worship-painting classes with Blossoming Hearts Studio on Facebook. And don’t forget about the free Lamplighter audiobook too!

The list also has sites for every homeschooling subject you can imagine. Pass this on and share it with your friends:

Are you new here? You might want to subscribe to my email updates, or follow me on Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, Google+, or Instagram.

Disclosure of Material Connection: Some of the links in the post above are “affiliate links.” This means if you click on the link and purchase the item, I will receive an affiliate commission. Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will add value to my readers. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.” Read full privacy policy here.

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How to Manage School-at-home Schedules

How to Manage School-at-home Schedules

Are you a parent suddenly thrown into the sea of homeschooling? Or, maybe you’re a homeschooling veteran trying to manage the changes to your system during the quarantine? Either way, these ideas for how to manage school-at-home schedules are for you!

 

How to Manage School-At-Home Schedules

1. Pick a shorter pocket of time to homeschool & teach multiple grades of kids at once.

Schools need more time because they are teaching large groups of kids. You’re not. Your kids are getting more individualized time. Do not think you need to school for 6-8 hours a day. 1-2 hours for kindergarten to second grade and 3-4 hours for the other grades is plenty. You are giving individualized attention. Your kids ARE getting what they need.

Once you’ve picked out your pocket of time, figure out ways to school as many kids as possible together. You can even combine subjects, too! How? You can study History and Bible with multiple ages by reading missionary stores. (I love these from YWAM.)

You can also do a unit study with multiple kids. I love these studies from Five in a Row! There are so many great ideas. I read the books to all my children, and then we explore Geography, Culture, Literature, Art, Science, and more together! Even guides designed for 5 to 9-year-olds take us on enough rabbit trails to satisfy even my high schoolers, and we’re all learning together!

 

That word “together” is key. People are amazed that I homeschool five grades of kids all at once without losing my mind. I’m actually amazed too.

I shared more details about how I do that HERE. In the video on that page, I actually unbox our books, and I give an overview of how I homeschool. During that school year, I used two levels of Sonlight curriculum to teach children in Grades 2, 3, 4, 8, 9, and 9th. And the best part is they all excel while also having fun!

 

2. The greatest asset to your kids is YOU.

There are a lot of things you can do for your kids, but the thing your children need the most is a mom who enjoys learning with them.

Your children’s connection with you is greater than any worksheet or assignment. Choose things you can enjoy together. Read books aloud, create art, research things your kids are interested in on YouTube, bake together, listen to audiobooks together, share family albums. Find things you all enjoy.

Spring is a perfect time to plant a family garden or grow flowers! The fresh air and being outdoors is a great way to break up a school day and counts as physical education, biology, botany, or environmental science. Plus, you can eat the fruits of your labor and enjoy the beauty of nature.

 

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3. Understand everyone is anxious.

Take time to talk about disappointments, worries, and fear. Instead of jumping straight to discipline when your kids do something wrong, try to figure out what really is going on in your kids’ hearts. If kids are worried and anxious, take time to talk, to pray, and to relax. Jumping into “homework” isn’t going to help anxious kids.

I learned that when a child’s emotional brain is spiked, her thinking brain is turned off. 

During this time, kids need a place to think, write, or draw what is going on in their hearts and minds. Writing helps kids process emotions. Writing moves thoughts from a kids’ emotional brain to his thinking brain, allowing him to process all that’s going on.

I believe in this so much, I’ve created Stay Home Journals for kids.

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Of course, moms need peace, too!

Often in my day, I don’t have peace. Why? Deep down I’m overwhelmed by kids, marriage, deadlines, mentoring, homeschooling, keeping up a house … and now the quarantine. Sometimes I feel exhausted and trapped.

It’s just too much, and I don’t remember to turn to God and to trust Him. Instead, I attempt to work harder to “get things under control,” and I rush around trying to fix things. I worry, complain (mostly in my head). I refuse to seek help and I forget how to find peace in chaos.

If you’re struggling with finding peace in this chaos then this post is for you: How to Find Peace in the Chaos.

 

 

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4. Let kids sleep in.

 

There is no need to get everyone up and busy with school work. You have all day, right? Let kids get their rest, and you can use those quiet moments to read, pray, and get your mind and heart ready for the day.

 

Because my homeschooling kids finish all their schoolwork during the day there is no homework at night. We have dinner together and enjoy each other’s company. Then we hang out and everyone goes to bed at a decent hour. And then, they get to sleep in. With this schedule, my kids get 9-10 hours a night, which is what they need!

 

Years ago I was interviewing a doctor, and she told me that most of the behavioral problems that parents have with tweens and teens have to do with lack of sleep. Teens are staying up too late and waking up too early. Because they are growing so much, tweens and teens actually need the same amount of sleep as toddlers. And when they don’t get it, they’re like a whole bunch of BIG cranky toddlers running around. I’ve found this to be true.

 

There are many benefits to homeschooling, and sleep is one of them. You might enjoy reading more about what I found out about letting your children sleep in this post.‎

 

 

5. Use this time for building precious memories.

 

Your kids will always remember this time … consider it a gift! As we all face this strange, new reality, we can choose to love and guide our families through the uncertainty. No matter what may come, the main thing is to remain steadfast in our love for God and each other. We will get through this together.

 

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Kristi and I believe that homeschooling can transform your life, your home, and your family. Mostly, we believe homeschool can truly prepare your children for the life God’s called them to live.

 

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Drawing Our Children Close

Today I welcome my friend Tara Davis to share with us about drawing our children close in times of struggle. I know her wisdom and gentle heart will bless you.

 

 

“Children are a gift from the Lord; they are a reward from him.” Psalm 127:3

Drawing Our Children Close

I sat in an old, worn armchair feeding my third baby as I watched the early morning light filtering through pine trees outside our window. It was so beautiful, but I was so tired. I couldn’t seem to manage all that I felt was expected of me. My frustration with life was just one situation away from spilling out of my soul in a hot mess of emotion. Oh, how I wanted some peace and quiet and maybe even a little bit of order. I wanted everyone to just go away for a little while, to quit being so loud, to quit needing me so much.

I looked down at my little one’s pudgy, dimpled baby hands and glanced over at my two
wonderful, growing boys wrestling on the floor. A wave of guilt flashed like lightning across
my mind. How many times had I, in my exhaustion and frustration, pushed them away? How many times had I chosen the path of “not now” or “I’m too busy” instead of embracing their littleness, enjoying their wildness, and jumping feet first into the messy “yes” of intentional mothering?

My dear friend, some days the temper tantrums, squabbles, and diapers seem never-ending, don’t they? You so desperately want to do this mom-thing right. Me too. When my older boys were still babies, I looked everywhere for examples of godly moms to follow. I just wanted someone to tell me exactly what to do to make this all work out. I just wanted these wild ones of mine to turn out okay in the end. But with all that searching and fretting and wishing, I should have just looked up to the Lord.

Oh, how our Father loves us. Isaiah 40:11 says,

 

“He tends his flock like a shepherd: He gathers the lambs in his arms and carries them close to his heart; he gently leads those that have young.”

 

 

He’s talking about us right there, my friend. He gently leads us moms with little (and big) lambs of our own. All we need to do is follow Him as we embrace these children He has gifted to us!

And oh, how I want to be a parent like my Father! In Hosea 11:4, God speaks lovingly of His children Israel, saying,

“I led them with cords of human kindness, with ties of love. To them, I was like one who lifts a little child to the cheek, and I bent down to feed them.”

God’s gentle love for His children, the way He draws them with kindness and lifts their burdens is beautiful, isn’t it? It almost sounds like Israel is an easy child. But all we need to do is glance through the first few books of the Bible to see that Israel was a disobedient, defiant disaster. Yet our Father still loved them. Instead of pushing them away, He gently drew His children close to Himself.

God continually meets His children where they are, lifting them up during hardships, shouldering their burdens, and pouring His life-changing love into their hearts. Oh, what sweet grace to be able to follow the Lord’s example with our own children! But what about the times when we are exhausted, disappointed, frustrated, and overwhelmed?

 

 

In Colossians 3:12, we can find God’s truth for these times,

 

“Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.”

 

There it is. When we are tired, when our children misbehave, when we have to break up yet another sibling fight, we are to allow the Lord to clothe us with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. We are to follow our Father’s example and pick up our children, draw them to our heart with tenderness, and show them the gentleness of the Lord in our words and actions as we shoulder their burdens.

Drawing Our Children Close

With our children pulled close to our heart, we are able to say yes to their exuberance for life. Yes to the thousand questions they ask, yes to the sticky hand in ours, yes to kneeling at their level and teaching their heart when they are disobedient.  Yes to rocking them to sleep on tear-soaked nights, yes to speaking truth in a kind tone, yes to living ourselves the way we have asked them to live. And yes to walking the path of Christ’s love one day at a time.

Let’s love these loud, crazy, beautiful children of ours just as Jesus does; we have them with us for such a short while. Our lives will one day be cleaner and less chaotic, and we won’t feel so much like we are on the verge of losing our minds, but our sweetest ones will be grown.

 

 

 

Will you choose to love this time with them and draw them tenderly to your heart even when you feel like pulling away? With God all things are possible, mama!

 

FAITH-FILLED IDEA: Have a Time-In

 

It is so easy to push our kids away, especially in times of frustration. Consider having a time-in when your child is upset instead of a time-out. Let them climb into a chair with you and talk with them about how to calm down, take deep breaths, and think on good things as the Bible instructs us in Philippians 4:8. Pray with your child that God will help them with their struggles and will create within them a clean heart. Use this time to teach your child how to run to God for help.

Hey Mama, do you need some help?

 

The Help Club for Moms is a group of ordinary women who read the Bible, live real lives with real families, rely on Jesus for everything, and have a deep desire to share the love of our Savior with everyone they can! You can join them online at https://helpclubformoms.com and you can even join them in starting a group in your own church or faith community!

 

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Hey Mamas! Are you feeling stressed with the thought of your whole family being home during the Coronavirus season? Check out the “Quarantine Survival Kit.” It has everything you need, to strengthen your heart and your family while you are home together!

 

Click this link to access the “Quarantine Survival Kit” Printable.

 

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Let Me Help You Write A Novel

Do you have a passion for writing? Have you tried developing a regular writing practice, but had trouble making it stick? Do you dream of someday writing a book, creating additional income writing blogs and articles, or just want to establish a new creative outlet? Let me help you write a novel!

 

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As an author of over 80 books, I get asked all the time how to write a novel. What is my method? What tools can I offer? That’s why I started a private subscription group through Facebook. I wanted to answer these questions and share what I’ve learned after 25 years as a Christian author. Now, I’m sharing some of those lessons with you!

Maybe you had no idea I’d been so prolific. Maybe you’re wondering, “Who is Tricia Goyer?” Well, you’re in luck. In the first video, I share about who I am, why I started writing, and why I’m sharing what I’ve learned. It’s a great place to start.

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LESSON 1: Mine Your Life For Fiction

Do you have a passion for writing? Have you tried developing a regular writing practice, but had trouble making it stick? Do you dream of someday writing a book, creating additional income writing blogs and articles, or just want to establish a new creative outlet? Let me help you write a novel! Learn how to mine your life for fiction FREE!

 

Your life is your best source of story ideas. You have a personal wellspring of experience. You have a unique voice. You have stories only you can tell. Make the most of your life-themes by using this worksheet to inspired your fiction

Watch this video and pull from your life to write a novel: Mine Your Life for Fiction Video

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Lesson 2: Character Motivation

Do you have a passion for writing? Have you tried developing a regular writing practice, but had trouble making it stick? Do you dream of someday writing a book, creating additional income writing blogs and articles, or just want to establish a new creative outlet? Let me help you write a novel! Learn about Character Motivation for FREE!

 

We all want to feel. That’s why showing emotion through character motivation is essential in writing a novel that captures your reader. If there’s no feeling, we consider a novel boring and put it down.

If, on the other hand, the writer has managed to grip us with emotion right from the beginning, we can easily get sucked into a story and keep the pages turning until The End. That’s the goal of every great author: hook your reader right off the bat and keep ’em hooked!

Are you ready to learn how to write compelling stories that will grab your reader hook, line, and sinker through strong use of character motivation?

Watch this video to learn more: Character Motivation for Fiction Writers Video

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Lesson 3: Basic Novel Outline

Do you have a passion for writing? Have you tried developing a regular writing practice, but had trouble making it stick? Do you dream of someday writing a book, creating additional income writing blogs and articles, or just want to establish a new creative outlet? Let me help you write a novel! Learn how to write a basic novel for FREE!

 

The outline is the backbone of your novel and gives you the structure and bones from which to write the meat of your story. Most authors fall into one of two categories, “plotters” who use outlines, and “pantsers” who prefer to write freestyle allowing the style to form more organically.

Watch this video to learn more: How to Write a Basic Novel Outline

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Lesson 4: Turn Off Your Internal Editor

Do you have a passion for writing? Have you tried developing a regular writing practice, but had trouble making it stick? Do you dream of someday writing a book, creating additional income writing blogs and articles, or just want to establish a new creative outlet? Let me help you write a novel! Learn how to turn off your internal editor for FREE!

 

One of the most difficult parts of writing is the ability to turn off your internal editor, that voice in your head that wants to fix all the problems while you write. This not only slows you down but takes you out of being present in your story world. The more often you stop and edit, the fewer words you write. Fewer words=fewer scenes, chapters, and finished books.

 

Watch this video to learn how to write furiously: Turn off Your Internal Editor

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Math Mastered with the Less-Mathy Math Bundle from Sonlight

Math Mastered with the Less-Mathy Math Bundle

Do you have a math-hater? Do one or more of your kids struggle with math confidence? As a 25-year veteran homeschooling mom, I know mine have. After homeschooling our three biological children, my husband John and I went on to adopt seven children from foster care. Many of my children had faced physical and emotional issues that affected their ability to learn. I had seen normal homeschooling difficulties with my three oldest kids. However, with our adopted seven, I faced homeschooling trials that challenged me daily.

That’s where Sonlight came to my rescue.

Less Mathy Math Bundle

When John and I adopted our sibling group of four they looked like this. We knew that this was God’s plan for us and for them. We welcomed them into our home and planned to homeschool them with love the way we had done all our other kids. But, unfortunately, state laws prevented us from doing so until the adoption was final. For six months we had to work our entire household around the schedule of public school education. I dreamed of the day when my girls would be home all day and we’d sit around our dining room table and enjoy hours of learning together.

Little did I know…my four beautiful girls had a lot in store for me as a teaching mom, and us as a family.

Behind their big smiles hid kids who had lost their zest for learning through rote memorization and masked learning disabilities. I remember the first few weeks of homeschooling and the tears and frustration we faced. To say we had dove off into the deep end would be an understatement. Our saving grace was that I had been using Sonlight’s teaching tools and learning strategies for years. It wasn’t instant. It wasn’t easy. But with Sonlight by my side, I helped my girls not only learn how to learn but to love it as well.

With Sonlight’s hands-on tools for teaching, I was able to reach my children with personal, easy to use, engaging content. Sometimes kids just need to experience math in non-mathy ways like project-based learning, stories, and hands-on exploration to see that they are actually good at math. Math doesn’t have to be a struggle, it doesn’t need to incite anxiety, fears, or tears. With Sonlight we helped our kids become learners and with Sonlight’s Less-Mathy Math Bundle you’ll have cheers (instead of tears) at math time.

If you’ve found yourself (or your kids, or both!) running for the Kleenex when it’s time to do math, fear no more. Sonlight’s Less-Mathy Math Bundle is exactly what you need to make math fun and family teaching time peaceful again. Homeschooling with Sonlight makes me feel like Supermom!

Enter to win your Less-Mathy Math Bundle here: Sonlight’s Anniversary Giveaway

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What’s Included in the Less-Mathy Math Bundle?

 

This Book Thinks You’re a Math Genius

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This fill-in book helps children to think like mathematicians by introducing key mathematical concepts in a highly visual–and entertaining–way. Through fun activities and illustrations, This Book Thinks You’re a Math Genius encourages young readers to engage with new ideas by experimenting and investigating for themselves.

Less Mathy Math Bundle

Explore seven key areas of math: geometry, space and volume, statistics, numbers and number patterns, codes and ciphers, and the concept of infinity.

Each spread centers on an open-ended question that introduces a key mathematical concept and suggests activities that engage the child in a fun way. Children will do all sorts of mathematical stuff, but not like anything done in math classes. You’ll break codes, draw cool patterns, hunt for objects and get wet feet. By the end, you’ll be an official math genius – and you won’t even have added 2 plus 2.

 

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Math Adventures

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Every kid can go on a fun math adventure!

In a village hidden in the woods, animals live, work, play, and sometimes even quarrel. Led by a wise owl, second graders can wander through this enchanted space. As they visit the town, they’ll decode recipes, count cookies, and practice their addition, subtraction, and logic and problem-solving skills.

These books do not emphasize formal math definitions or terminology. Instead, math concepts are introduced gradually and naturally, as part of the story-based framework. Through this combination of storytelling and entertaining activities, even reluctant learners can grasp basic mathematical principles and begin to love the world of numbers.

Included in this workbook is practice in the following skills:

  • Reading and comparing quantities between 10 and 20
  • Grouping by 10s
  • Counting up to 100
  • Addition and subtraction, plus an introduction to multiplication as repeated addition
  • Strategies to help mental calculation skills
  • Logic puzzles…and more!

This set includes grades 2, 3, 4, and 5.

Young children learn math best if they have fun while they are doing it. The Math Adventures series approaches math as an experience that should be playful and relatable.

Math Adventures is designed to make math practice engaging and enjoyable for young learners. Featuring colorful illustrations and an entertaining storyline, these workbooks will help your children develop the skills needed to succeed in math.

 

Hands ON Tools

 

My children love anything that’s hands-on and these are some of their favorite math “toys.” When I want to get my kids excited about math and keep them engaged throughout the lesson I reach for these–it’s a hit every time! Math CAN be fun and with Sonlight’s Less-Mathy Math Bundle you’ll see a renewed sense of wonder and joy in learning. You’ll be reminded why you chose to homeschool in the first place–to offer your children the most well-rounded education and a love of learning. When it comes to homeschool math education Sonlight is my number one partner.

 

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Right now Sonlight is celebrating YOU with great give-aways in honor of their 30 year anniversary serving homeschool families just like yours! You can enter to win a Less-Mathy Math Bundle–and MORE–here: Enter to win the Less-Mathy Math Bundle

Celebrating 30 Years of Connecting Families and Helping Kids Love to Learn

It’s our 30th anniversary! Celebrate with us! What have we been doing for the last 30 years that is cause for celebration?Some folks might say we’ve been in business or we’ve been selling homeschool curriculum for a long time. Others may point out that Sonlight is the original Christian, literature-based curriculum.

While those achievements are true and worthy of being recognized, we are most proud of the fact that for thirty years we’ve been helping kids love to learn and connecting families—one to another and to God.

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Somebody Needs to Hear…

Somebody Needs to Hear. Tricia Goyer shares how you can help a teen mom. They need to hear encouragement and support from us.

 

Somebody Needs to Hear 

Last night I sat in a small support group of teenage mothers, and one brave young woman, Liz, walked to the front of the room.

“Guys, I usually sit there among you, but I asked Miss Tricia if I could share. You see, I’ve started this journey with Jesus, and I have to share all the amazing things God has done for me.”

Less than four months ago Liz showed up at our group with a dump truck of sin weighing down her heart. She was so ashamed of her recent mistakes that she’d missed many meetings. Yet a glimmer of hope stirred inside.

Go to them, and ask for prayer; maybe they’ll still love you.

The first night back, Liz took me aside, and we found a quiet room. She poured out her heart, and I cried along with her. Then she prayed and accepted Christ in her heart.

As I led her in that prayer I could feel the weights lifting: pain, shame, disgrace . . . they were boulders being hurled from her back. We stood and embraced, and the light on her face reflected the transformation in her heart. She prayed and asked God to take over, and He did. Man, how He did!

“You’ll never believe all God’s done for me. He’s provided people to care for me, to mentor me, and He’s taken care of all my needs and the needs of my two kids.” Liz walked away from unhealthy relationships and discovered a community of Christians who care.

She’s a different mom, a different student, a different friend.

“If you want to join me on my journey, call me whenever you want or text me. Come over and we’ll read the Bible together. There’s so much He has for you.”

And as I sat and listened with tears in my eyes, I realized that every moment I’ve spent volunteering in these teen mom support groups was worth it. It was worth it because Liz is worth it . . . and so is every other young mom who needs to hear the truth of Jesus’ love.

I’ve been honored to watch these stories of transformation unfold, but that’s only happened because deep down I knew there was someone out there who needed to hear. There is someone in your community who needs to hear, too. Someone who feels alone. Someone who feels unworthy. Someone who feels ashamed.

Tricia Goyer shares how you can help a teen mom in Someone Needs to Hear

Somebody needs to hear . . . they are worth your time.
Somebody needs to hear . . . that God’s grace is for them.
Somebody needs to hear . . . that their darkest sins are not too dark for God’s light.
Somebody needs to hear . . . there is hope.
Somebody needs to hear . . . peace can come.
Somebody needs to hear . . . about a second chance through Jesus.

But before they can hear all those things, they must hear something from you first.

Things like:

Do you want to meet for coffee? How can I help you?
What do you need most right now? What’s your story?
Do you want to hear how I’ve messed up? Do you want to hear what God did?

People need to hear about Jesus, and it’s hard to take the time, energy, and even money to make that a priority.

As I leave home and drive to our Thursday night meetings, I’m lucky if I’ve slapped together peanut butter and jelly for my husband and kids. I’ve stepped out of movies to take desperate phone calls. I’ve bought food, diapers, and door prizes to draw in the young women who need help, and I’ve asked myself, “Will they ever understand?” when it seems like they won’t.

But I continue because I know that someone needs to hear . . . and if I don’t tell them who will?

I also remember being the one who needed to hear about Jesus’ love and forgiveness when I was a soon-to-be mom at age 17. Somebody talked to me, and it cost them, too. Was it worth the cost? Was I worth the cost? I feel it was. I feel I am.

“Take up your cross and follow me,” Jesus said, and in 2015 that looks a little different than what it did in Jesus’ day. It might mean asking a friend to drive your child to t-ball practice, or walking away from that pile of dishes, or spending hard-earned cash to hire a babysitter for two hours so you can take someone out to just talk.

Tricia Goyer shares in Somebody Needs to Hear. How to help a Teen Mom.

 

Sacrifice is sacrifice, big or small. But transformation is TRANSFORMATION in the lives Jesus touches through you. Without us stepping out and doing our part, who’s going to tell them? Who’s going to tell her?

And without being told how, will they know Who to follow?

And if they don’t know who to follow, where will they wander? Into sin, pain, darkness, shame, and regret. It’s easier to shake our head at their choices than to reach out and be a friend. Because it costs us something, doesn’t it?

Will you do it? Will you speak? Will you give? Will you love?

 

How To Help a Teen Mom

As a former teen mom, I remember what it was like not to “fit in.” At seventeen I still felt like a kid, but I had a child to raise. It seems that no matter where I went, I always felt like the odd man out. At Lamaze class, everyone was with a spouse, and I was with my mom. Parenting books had ideas like, “Have your husband watch the baby while you take a long bath.” That wasn’t an option for me, and it’s also not an option for the young moms I work with now. I wanted to write a book just for them. I wanted to give them a voice concerning their unique struggles, such as dealing with creepy boyfriends and trying to juggle work and school. I also wanted to show them that they’re important and they matter—even if they don’t fit the mold of what society expects a “new mom” to be. That’s why I wrote Teen Mom–You’re Stronger Than You think.

 

Tricia Goyer shares encouragement with Teen Moms through her book.

 

My book, Teen Mom is all about the unique needs of a young mother. Some of these needs include importance, growth, perspective, intimacy, and hope. Importance to know that no matter what society says, they can be great moms and a wonderful influence on their child. Growth is needed so that a mom doesn’t feel like she’s “stuck” because of this child. She needs to know that she can grow into the woman she’s always longed to be. Perspective because too often a teen mom only sees obstacles ahead. She needs to see that the future can be bright. True intimacy is a big need because most girls get pregnant because they’re seeking this closeness with another person. They need to know that true intimacy is sharing your heart with another, including friends and family members. And finally, what young moms need most is hope. Hope that is found in Jesus Christ. I could come up with 1,001 ways for these young women to become good moms, but the best thing I can do is point them to faith in Jesus.

Looking For More Ways to Help Teen Moms?

Gaining Wisdom by Working with Teen Moms

A Letter to Teen Moms | You Are Important

Broken Things Made Beautiful

Word Identity | Your Words Change Everything!

Share “Teen Mom” with Someone Today!

5 Practical Ways to Run a Teen MOPS Group

Somebody Needs to Hear

17 Ways to Reach out to Single Moms

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