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7 Truths about Walking Out God’s Word

These 7 Truths about Walking Out God’s Word can help you find peace as you pursue God’s purpose in your life. I’ve learned that when I follow His ways I can rest knowing He holds my life in His hands. He is faithful, friend. He will give you the life you desire if you trust Him with the details. Let’s look at how we can do that.

 

7 Truths about Walking Out God’s Word

What God has accomplished through me always amazes people, as an author of 70 books, conference speaker, and mom of ten kids, they want to know how I do it all. Truthfully, I don’t do it all. There is a lot I say no to. But I’ve ended up where I am due to one determination. I’ve just committed to reading God’s Word and walking it out. When I take these steps to walk out God’s Word, He provides me with all I need to fulfill His call.

Twenty-eight years ago, I was a 17-year-old teen mom who committed her life to Jesus and dared to believe God could make something out of her life. Seeing the destructive path I was on, I dared to read God’s Word and do what it says. I talk about my journey in my newly released book Walk It Out: The Radical Result of Living God’s Word One Step At A Time, and here are a few things I’ve learned in the process:

1. God’s mandates are given for a reason.

Whether you realize it or not, God intended for us to do what the Bible says: take the gospel into all the world, care for the vulnerable, help the needy, tend to our most important relationships. These are guideposts that point us down the path of true living and eternal life.

For many years I assumed God’s will for my life was all about me. But as I actually did what the Bible said, I discovered there was a large world out there who needed Jesus, and God had a part for me to play. Yes, I found true living and eternal life for myself, but as I follow God’s mandates I was able to share God’s Good News with others who found true living and eternal life, too.

As we choose to walk out God’s desires for this world, we model for our children a better way to live. When we prayed and ask God what matters to Him, He will open our eyes to those around us who needed help and hope. And as we extend love to others, God’s love flows through us. When we allow Scripture’s mandates to direct our lives, we’ll discover a God-designed mission that will excite and delight us. Isn’t this the type of life we want to model for our kids?

As a young mom, I was asked to help start a crisis pregnancy center. I didn’t think I had time, but God reminded me of those who reached out to me when I was a teen mom, giving me hope. I started a weekly support group in 2000, and I’m still leading one today. My heart is full and I find great joy telling young women that they matter to God and that their children matter. Watching my passionate service, each of my adult children have discovered their own passions in varied and unique ministries. They reach out to others as they were shown.

3. Walking out God’s Word takes action.

It’s important to know God’s Word, but the time comes when God’s Spirit whispers, “Are you done learning about Me, and are you ready to connect with Me?” After we fill our minds with head knowledge, God wants us to place our feet on the ground and act. He wanted me to have a living faith that was undeniable to me and to all those He brought into my life. But the walking part is important. As James 1:22 says, “But don’t just listen to God’s word. You must do what it says. Otherwise, you are only fooling yourselves,” (NLT).

4. To walk out what God’s Word we need to depend on Him.

“I used to ask God to help me,” said Hudson Taylor, humble missionary and founder of the China Inland Mission. “Then I asked if I might help Him. I ended up by asking Him to do His work through me.”

These words resonate with me because God took me on the same journey from independence to dependence. I’ve never needed God so greatly as I do when I walk out His mandates. When I’ve cried to Him in desperation; I’ve turned to Him in prayer more than ever. And that’s exactly where He wants me—wants each of us—to be.

We want to walk out God’s directive to share with those in need, but we often don’t know what that looks like. Seeing all the needs can be overwhelming. That’s why it’s important to ask, “God what is the one thing You need me to do today?” Then, do that, knowing God will tell the next step as needed.

6. Our calling is to become more like Jesus.

What is God calling us to do? How is He asking us to help and love the poor or to care for lost sinners? We can see how God wants us to act by seeing how Jesus loved and cared for people. Our calling isn’t to a specific job or ministry. Our calling is to walk as Jesus did.

7. Know your steps of faith define your future.

Dare I say it? Sometimes we step out of God’s will for us today because we’re trying to figure out what He has planned for us tomorrow—for our future. But when we walk out God’s directives and take steps of self-sacrifice, love, service, and compassion, we will discover God’s purpose for our future, and our family’s future, because our faithful steps will lead us to it.

“Who we choose to become and how we choose to live every day creates a trajectory for everything else,” said author Jerry Sittser. “Perhaps that is why the Bible says so little about God’s will for tomorrow and so much about what we should do to fulfill his will today.”

For years I tried to figure out God’s will for my life, but as I followed God’s Word—one step after another—I found myself in the center of God’s will. All I’ve accomplished has resulted from faithful steps of doing what the Bible says. Of course, the greatest success isn’t what I’ve done, but who’ve I’ve become on this journey with God. And who my children have become as they’ve followed me.

 

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How to Keep Love Alive with a House Full of Kids

How to Keep Love Alive with a House Full of Kids

Wondering How to Keep Love Alive with a House Full of Kids? It’s possible! After three decades of marriage, John and I have made our relationship a priority. There are no shortcuts to marital intimacy. But if you make the effort and take the time to keep connecting, you can stay close to your spouse–even with 10 kids and grandma in the house. Let me share what’s worked for us in this post.

 

How to Keep Love Alive with a House Full of Kids

 

 

 

How to Keep Love Alive with a House Full of Kids

Marriage is a challenge. Having time for intimacy with your spouse can be too. John and I have been married thirty-one years, and the priorities we’ve created to “keep love alive” have benefitted our marriage.

The closeness we’ve established has provided us with a habit of drawing close, even during challenging times in our lives. It hasn’t been easy to take time for each other, but it’s been worth it. Here are ways you can also keep love alive with a house full of kids.

1. Set boundaries.

I was an eighteen-year-old teen mom when John and I started dating. Our newlywed years included a toddler! Since I was a single mom at first, Cory was used to sleeping in bed with me, but things had to change once I got married. John and I set up boundaries right from the beginning.

  • No kids in our bed.

  • When our son was old enough to try to open the bedroom door, we locked it.

For me—and many women—feeling the freedom to be intimate with your spouse is important. We can’t relax if we worry a child is going to walk in at any moment! A few years in, John and I even started sleeping naked. Without that layer of clothes, a sense of closeness is fostered, even on nights when we go straight to sleep.

2. Keep distractions at bay.

Within three years of marriage, John and I had two additional kids. More kids mean more distractions and work, which also could have meant less time together. So we developed positive habits to ensure our evenings provided space and time for togetherness.

  • We always go to bed at the same time. And we try to make that not too late.

  • We never put a television in our bedroom. I insist on this. I’m not a TV person, and I know it can be a bad habit to have it on and miss moments of connection and intimacy. . .

Read the rest of this article at The Better Mom How to Keep Love Alive with a House Full of Kids

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20 Tips to Enjoy the Last Days of Summer

Do you want to enjoy the last days of summer with your family? Before long, the mornings will be cooler and work and school will fill our days. Make the most of the remaining time with the people who mean the most in your life. Here are 20 tips to enjoy the last days of summer!

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20 Tips to Enjoy the Last Days of Summer

Let’s make the most of the dog days of summer with these 20 fun ideas for family bonding in the hottest time of year.

  1. Make your own popsicles from fruit juice or lemonade.
  2. Host a neighborhood “dog wash” and have all the local dogs clean and smelling sweet.
  3. Have a backyard campout and lay under stars and identify constellations.

  4. Have a watermelon feed and seed spitting competition. kids eating watermelon

  5. Make homemade ice cream.
  6. Take one last trip to the local pool or beach.
  7. Have a 24-hour read-a-thon in your living room.
  8. Shop a local farmer’s market for end-of-season fruits and veggies.
  9. Recycle old tee-shirts by tie-dying or batiking them with Elmer’s glue.
  10. Get ready for Fall by cleaning out old toys and clothes and donating to a local charity.
  11. Make your own paper.
  12. Have a hotdog and marshmallow roast and tell stories about your favorite family memories.

  13. Have a squirt gun fight. Last Days of Summer

  14. Make a bookmobile from a garage sale or thrifted books. Donate to a local library or public school for decoration.
  15. Take a Sunday drive through the country to see wildflowers.
  16. Host a karaoke contest in your backyard.
  17. Go to a concert or play in the park.
  18. Go out to lunch or dinner at a local diner and sit at the counter.

  19. Volunteer as a family to walk local shelter dogs.

  20. Make a family movie and share it with grandparents or long-distance relatives.

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I hope these ideas help you finish out the summer with a bang and move you into Fall with happy memories.

What other ideas do you have for enjoying the last days of summer? Share with me in the comments!

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6 Ways to Craft a Family of Purpose

Do you want to craft a family of purpose and chase God together? That doesn’t just happen by accident. Living a lifestyle with the freedom to follow God’s call requires us to be intentional. Let me share the steps we took to order our family so we could make an impact on the world for Jesus.

6 Ways to Craft a Family of Purpose

Many years ago my husband John and I set up a framework for our family. Identifying our priorities and eliminating what didn’t fit helped us to establish a family life filled with meaning and purpose, one that included the space to follow God wherever He would lead. Stated another way, we formed (created) our family value system and framework before we filled (added things into our lives.) The idea of forming and filling isn’t something we came up with on our own. It came from the first pages of the Bible.

In the first three days of creation, God “formed.” He established supportive systems necessary for life and humankind‘s existence. He created the heavens and the earth. He separated the waters from the land. He built the framework that would sustain his creation. The last three days, God “filled.” He filled his creative world with plants, flowers, animals, and humankind.

Problems come when we fill our weekly and monthly schedules before we build a structure for them. We make decisions out of our emotions or desires without contemplating their impact on us or our family. But as I’ve experienced, this never works. Few good things ever happened by accident. As John and I consider the type of people we wanted to be in the type of children we wanted to raise, Six priorities rose to the top.

Identifying our priorities and eliminating what didn’t fit helped us to establish a family life filled with meaning and purpose . . .

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6 Ways to Craft a Family of Purpose

1. Attending Church

For us, church attendance has never been optional. God‘s Word is clear on this. We read in Hebrews 10:25  “And let us not neglect our meeting together, as some people do, but encourage one another, especially now that the day of his return is drawing near” (NLT).

Attending church is important for our family and we are happy to set aside time to honor the Lord and gather with other believers.

2. Serving Others Together

We wanted our kids to learn how to serve, even from a young age. When I launched Hope Pregnancy Center, they helped remodel our ministry building by pulling up carpet and picking up trash. They folded baby clothes and stacked diapers. My daughter Leslie even babysat for a teen mom support group. At first I felt guilty. Other kids were outside playing or hanging out with friends, but I soon discovered that our kids were proud of their efforts, and it became easier for them to serve in other ways.

3. Reading the Bible and Praying Together

Every school Day morning we read from the Bible and a devotional book, then pray together. We do this first thing. I want to show my kids that reading the Bible is always a priority.

John and I also read the Bible and pray with each other in the mornings. We don’t succeed every day, but we do it most days. Our youngest children are often awake at that time, and though they know they can’t interrupt, they love watching us. Sometimes when I open my eyes after praying I find three little kids sitting at our feet, listening to every word. It is especially sweet when later, during their prayer time, I hear my words repeated as they pray for family members and concerns. Although having kids watch me while I pray sometimes feels awkward, I know it’s important.
It models for them what a healthy spiritual life can look like.

4. Eating Family Dinner Together

John and I decided our kids knowing each other and us was important, as well as face-to-face connection while eating a meal around the table. During family dinners we talk about our day and enjoy the conversation. We expect our kids to help out with these meals. Some of them help cook dinner, others set the table. Afterward our kids help clear the table and put away food, unload and load the dishwasher, wash pots and pans, wipe down the counters and sweep the floor. Together all these activities teach our children what being part of a family is all Out.

Reading at bedtime together one of my favorite times of the day is when I get the little kids settled in at night and it’s time to read. We turn off all electronics, the kids get ready for bed, and then we sit down together. Our adult kids still look back on reading time with fondness. We’ve never regretted the time we spent together within the pages of a book.

6. Supporting Everyone’s Talents and Activities Together.

Whenever one of our children is involved in an activity, we show up as a family to support them. This has included attending football games to watch our daughter in the marching band we’re going to statewide basketball games for our son. We want our children to know they are uniquely special and their whole family is cheering them on. These priorities lead to habits that fostered a more focused and settled spirit as a family.

I have no doubt that if John hadn’t stepped in and helped me learn to create white space and consider our family priorities and foundation, at least part of the foundation would’ve been built on sand. You can only be blown in so many different directions for so long without collapsing like a house of cards. Thankfully our family is now strongly structured and focused on the purposes God has for us together.

What causes you to add activities to your schedule? Do you worry about what others will think or fear that you’re not doing enough? Feelings of inadequacy and a desire to prove yourself can lead to disappointment. This week name one thing God is asked you to join him in but you have been unable to do because you haven’t had the time and space. How could you re-order your priorities and what activities or commitments could you give up to make room for God‘s calling on your life?

6 Ways to Craft a Family of Purpose

Want to learn more about how our family has made choices that support our goal of following God together? You might enjoy my book Walk It Out! Available now in my online shop: Walk It Out

Women often pack their lives with family, friends, and faithful service, yet still, end up feeling empty and unfulfilled. In Walk It Out, Tricia Goyer demonstrates to women that walking out the mandates of Scripture allows God to spark passion and mission within them.

Whether believers realize it or not, God intended for them to do what the Bible says: adopt the orphan, take the gospel into all the world, and care for the needy. These are mandates that point believers down the path of true living and eternal life.

Sometimes those steps are easy, but many times they require a move outside of what feels safe or secure. When women stop focusing on their own dreams and purposes and instead focus on God’s dreams and purposes, everything changes.

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Congratulations to the Realm Awards 2021 Winners

I’m wishing heartfelt congratulations to the Realm Awards 2021 Winners. Last weekend (over my 50th birthday!) I attended the Realm Makers Conference in St. Louis, Missouri, with my husband John and son Nathan (author of Bask). I hope you enjoy learning about the winners and take a look at what they have to offer!

Congratulations to the Realm Awards 2021 Winners

Fifty is a landmark birthday and I chose to spend mine at the Realm Makers Conference last weekend. It was a great decision. My husband John and I joined our son Nathan in St. Louis for a fun-filled weekend of sci-fi, writing, and even sushi. I was able to hear the legendary Frank Peretti speak as well as Steve Laube who I’ve admired as one of the best in our industry for decades. All-in-all, it was a wonderful way to celebrate my birthday and I am excited to dig into the load of new books I brought home.

 

 

Congratulations to the Realm Awards 2021 Winners

I hope you’ll take a minute to check out the great authors and creators who won in all the categories. I’m hoping to attend next year and maybe you’ll join me?

 

 

 

 

 

NOVELS

 

 

 

Science Fiction and Book of the Year

 

 

Apprentice by Kristen Young, published by Enclave Escape

 

 

 

 

 

Debut, Epic Fantasy, Young Adult

 

 

The Seventh Sun by Lani Forbes, published by Blackstone Publishing

 

 

 

 

 

Fantasy and Readers Choice

 

 

Dust by Kara Swanson, published by Enclave

 

 

 

 

 

Middle Grade

 

 

An Echo of the Fae by Jenelle Schmidt, published by Stormcave

 

 

 

 

 

Paranormal/Supernatural

 

 

Mercury at Risk by Steve Rzasa, published by Steve Rzasa

 

 

 

 

 

Cover Design

 

 

Dust by Kara Swanson, published by Enclave Publishing, designed by Kirk DouPonce

 

 

 

 

 

SHORT FICTION

 

 

 

Novella

 

 

Treason’s Crown by Anne Wheeler, published by Catherine Wheeler

 

 

 

 

 

Short Story

 

 

Eryri by Laura VanArendonk Baugh, published by Tyche Books

 

 

 

 

 

Flash Fiction

 

 

The Voice of Cancer by Ronnell Gibson, published by Havok Publishing

 

 

 

 

 

AUDIO

 

 

 

Audiobook

 

 

The Story Raider by Lindsay Franklin, published by Oasis Audio, narrated by Pam Turlow

 

 

 

 

 

Audio Drama

 

 

Wight Christmas by Laura VanArendonk Baugh, published by Untold Podcast, narrated by Kristin L. Norman/Nathan James Norman

 

 

 

 

 

Audio Short

 

 

Why God Made Beer by A.C. Williams, published by the Havok Story Podcast, narrated by Magnus Carlssen

 

 

Which one looks most interesting to you? Respond and let me know!

 

Keep Reading~

Tricia

 

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Finding Purpose Through Calendar White Space

Finding Purpose Through Calendar White Space can change your life–and that of your family. Years ago, I sat down with my husband John and, with his help, cleared away the calendar clutter that was robbing me of peace and purpose. Today, we live very busy–yet structured–purpose-filled lives that give our family the time and space they need to feed their souls and feed into others as well. Let me share what helped us craft purpose through creating white space.

Finding Purpose Through Calendar White Space

Whenever one of our children is involved in an activity, we show up as a family to support them. This has included attending football games to watch our daughter in the marching band or going to statewide basketball games for our son. We want our children to know they are uniquely special and that their whole family is cheering them on. These priorities lead to habits that fostered a more focused and settled spirit as a family.

Even though we have a large family, we established patterns to our days and weeks. The time we spend together makes us closer. Our priorities guide us when it comes to knowing what to say yes to and what to say no to. They help us determine what’s best for all of us, not just for one person in the family. Our choices have directed us to a quieter life, even as we’ve continued to add to our family through adoption.

Finding Purpose Through Calendar White Space

Not long after John and I were married, we sat down and went through the calendar together. I was in tears. I felt scattered. There never seemed to be enough time to do the things that were important to me. As we went through the calendar clearing exercises, I came across a verse that confirmed we were on the right track. Ecclesiastes 4:6 says, “Better is a handful of quietness than two handfuls of toil and striving after the wind” (ESV ).

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Clearing my calendar and establishing family priorities didn’t just bring calm to my day, it also brought peace to my soul, making room for God to work. As Colossians 3:15 says, “let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts.”

Finding Purpose Through Calendar White Space

Whenever I feel tempted to default and add on “just one more thing” I remind myself that adding more is just chasing the wind. As my soul is settled and I stop trying to prove myself, I start asking God to show me his heart, to direct my path, and to guide my steps. I tell him I want his purpose for my life — our lives, not just mine. And I’ve discovered God has been waiting for us to join his work all along.

Once I created white space and had a framework to guide family decisions, my mind became less cluttered, my day is less frantic, and my heart more open to God’s will.

Finding Purpose Through Calendar White Space can change your life–and that of your family.

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If you enjoyed this post, you might like my book Walk It Out:

Walk It Out

Women often pack their lives with family, friends, and faithful service, yet still, end up feeling empty and unfulfilled. In Walk It Out, Tricia Goyer demonstrates to women that walking out the mandates of Scripture allows God to spark passion and mission within them.

Whether believers realize it or not, God intended for them to do what the Bible says: adopt the orphan, take the gospel into all the world, and care for the needy. These are mandates that point believers down the path of true living and eternal life.

Sometimes those steps are easy, but many times they require a move outside of what feels safe or secure. When women stop focusing on their own dreams and purposes and instead focus on God’s dreams and purposes, everything changes.

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Mom, Your Life Matters. You Matter.

“Mom, your life matters, you matter,” I told them. The words were barely out of my mouth when I heard the sniffles and saw women quickly wiping away the tears that managed to escape. My words hit a tender part of their hearts—and maybe yours, too. Today I share what God says about Mothering and how you can feel His delight in you.

Mom, Your Life Matters.

Recently, I spoke at a women’s conference, encouraging moms. While I wanted to encourage moms to be all that God created them to be, there was another part of my message that resonated even more. “Mom, your life matters, you matter,” I told them. The words were barely out of my mouth when I heard the sniffles and saw women quickly wiping away the tears that managed to escape. My words hit a tender part of their hearts—and maybe yours, too.

You DO Matter

As moms we’re often so busy comparing ourselves to others we forget that we’re important—that we matter just as we are. Our worth as women goes beyond what we do. We are worthy beyond what we can accomplish. We forget how much we are loved by the Creator of the universe. We forget that deep down to the core Jesus loves us, just as we are and right at this moment.

You matter because you’re designed by God.

God created you and He loves you. He smiles when He sees you. It doesn’t matter to Him how much you’ve accomplished today. His love is not dependent on that what you do or don’t do.

For most of my life, I had a hard time understanding that my worth wasn’t based on works. During my growing up years, I thought I had to be “the good kid” to earn God’s love. It was only as I really messed up (time and time again), that I realize God’s love doesn’t depend on me, but rather on Him. His love is an outpouring of His greatness and not on my goodness, and I’m so glad for that.

Take a moment and picture yourself sitting next to Jesus. Imagine Him looking at you with love in His gaze. He’s not concerned about your to-do list. He’s not worried if you weigh more than you wish or have more debt than you should. He loves you simply for you in this moment. “You matter,” He whispers, hoping it will penetrate to you heart.

You matter because God has good plans for you.

“God gives his children tasks to complete. Even in Eden he assigned the first man and woman the job of tending a garden,” writes Judith Couchman in her book, Designing a Woman’s Life. “But understanding our significance before we attempt accomplishment anchors the soul in an order uncommon to this world. First, we embrace our innate worth, then we pursue our unique purpose. After this, we tackle our work.”

Feel as if you’re not living up to your potential? Jesus can help you become more of the person he designed you to be. With Jesus’s wisdom and guidance, you can become the best version of yourself. You don’t matter because of what you do. Jesus’ love isn’t dependent on your works, but He does long to work alongside you.

Take a moment and imagine the good work God has planned for you. Instead of looking ahead toward the obstacles, glance over to the side. Jesus is there, ready to take every step with you and help you along the way.

You matter today.

Out of all the people on this earth God chose you to parent your children in this time in history. Your children will have a lot of friends, mentors, and teachers but you are their only mom. It’s easy to focus on your flaws, but your child sees something different. Your child loves you because you are you. Believe that you matter today.

Take a moment and imagine all you have to do for the rest of the day. How would all that you do change if you understood that God has given you today with your children … and with Him. Picture Jesus in the rest of your day and into tomorrow. Do you see the message in his gaze? “Today is what matters. You matter today.”

 When I speak with women these messages are often the ones they need to hear. Maybe you needed these words, too. If these truths haven’t penetrated your heart go back and read them again. Sometimes it takes a while for the truth to sink in, but once it does the truth will change everything. It matters.

 

 

This post originally appeared on The Better Mom blog here: Mom, You Matter

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4 Ways YOU Can Bring God Glory | Kristen Tiber

These 4 Ways YOU Can Bring God Glory from Kristen Tiber will help you focus on making an impact for the Kingdom where you are today. Your message matters and you can bring His hope to a hurting world. Let Kristen’s words encourage you in this guest post.

4 Ways YOU Can Bring God Glory

Have you ever thought about the great heroes of our faith only to be left feeling a little insignificant? After all, did you care for the poor by the thousands, preach on the world’s stage or stir revival in the hearts of a nation? When we compare ourselves to some of those great men and women throughout history, it can be tempting to think that we have to accomplish huge feats and be at the center of attention in order to bring God any glory. But that couldn’t be further from the truth! God’s eyes are on you and His heart is for you. No life is too small to make an impact for the Kingdom and bring glory to the Father!

But how do we do it? What are some ways we can live our lives in order to bring Him glory? Believe it or not, it can be pretty simple. Not necessarily easy, but simple.

4 Ways YOU Can Bring God Glory

 

1. Be obedient.

Our culture doesn’t like the idea of obedience and coming under someone’s authority. However, a life lived under the authority of God not only brings blessing to the follower, but it also brings glory to God. When we abide in His ways, when we walk according to His laws, we are showing the effect of what He has done in our lives. As followers of Christ, we need to pursue what His Word says and not what our feelings try to dictate. He and His Word are the standard, and our obedience becomes a witness to those around us.
“Live such good lives among the pagans that, though they may accuse you of doing wrong, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits us.” 1 Peter 2:12

2. Be patient.

Patience has become an abnormal practice for the world in which we live. With the incredible advances in technology, we don’t really have to wait for much. Whether it is our Amazon delivery, our quick Google searches, or our Instant Pot dinners, we have grown accustomed to the instantaneous and immediate. However, Scripture tells us that patience is a fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22) and as we bear fruit, we show ourselves to be His disciples, bringing glory to the Father (John 15:8-11).

3. Examine and align the desires of our hearts.

What are the desires of our hearts? What is the motivation behind those desires? As believers, it would be good to take time to reflect on what it is we want and what it is that God may want for us. And on those occasions when our desires don’t line up with His, we would be wise to yield to God’s desires and plans for us. After all, the One who died for us, certainly has our best interests at heart. When we are walking in the path He has for us, we will give Him praise and glory!

4. Believe and trust God through times of suffering.

Throughout the New Testament, glory often appears alongside suffering. Paul connects the two ideas in his letters, and Peter often reminds his readers of coming glory in the midst of their suffering. And we also know Jesus experienced great suffering on the cross to be followed by His glorious resurrection. When we go through a season of suffering, we can find hope that not only will God infuse it with purpose, but also that we have a future glory to look forward to. (See Romans 8:16-18.)

When we can put the name of Jesus and His renown above our own wants and desires, above our own inclinations – when we can get through seasons of suffering with an expectation of how God will use it – we will see that the life of one person can indeed bring much glory to God, no matter how big or small.

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Kristen Tiber is an author, speaker, and women’s Bible study teacher. Currently, she and her husband, Dan, teach the high school Sunday school class at their church have enjoyed doing so for the last eight years. Kristen is a homeschooling mom to her two kids, Peter and Anna. A forever student of the Word of God, Kristen desires to see Jesus’ name and renown lifted up. She is passionate to see others grow in their love for Jesus and His Word. Her books include Teach Me To Serve, At The Well and Greater Glory. Kristen can be found at KristenTiber.com, where she encourages others to live with purpose in all seasons of life.

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What does it mean to live for God’s glory?

Let’s find out together!  

Many people today will tell you that purpose is found in following your heart. Your career, relationship status, goals, and hobbies all center around discovering what you want and what makes you happy. But the Bible tells us that our purpose isn’t found inside ourselves. True purpose that will give us the greatest delight and satisfaction, that has the power to change the trajectory of our lives, is found in bringing God glory.

Join Kristen Tiber as she takes a fascinating look at the glory of God. As Kristen traces God’s glory chronologically through the Scriptures, you will look at: What is glory? How was it manifested? And what does it matter to us? You’ll discover meaningful purpose in your experiences and learn how YOU can bring God greater glory through your obedience, your patience, the desires of your heart, and your suffering.

This five-week women’s Bible study includes:

  • Individual daily assignments in the Greater Glory workbook
  • Free access to online, weekly Bible study videos streamed through www.KristenTiber.com
  • An optional Leader’s Guide for group study

This study can be used as an individual Bible study for women or for small groups.

Most women’s Bible study material today is geared for small groups in the church setting.  And while small groups wonderfully encourage fellowship, growth with others, and accountability, the price of the accompanying Bible study videos makes it near impossible for an individual to participate in the study alone.  Greater Glory is a 5-week Bible study workbook for small groups or the individual studying on her own.  Videos are free and accessed through www.KristenTiber.com.

Purchase a copy here.

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The Power to Forgive Your Enemies

The Power to Forgive your enemies isn’t something that comes naturally to anyone, even a hero of the faith like Corrie Ten Boom. But, with God’s help, Corrie was able to not only forgive but to extend grace and mercy to those whose actions had devasted so many. With Jesus’ help, we can too. Let the message of forgiveness in this story from Corrie’s life (adapted from my book Prayers That Changed History) lead the way.

The Power to Forgive Your Enemies

Corrie Ten Boom loved God and His people. Along with her family, Corrie helped many Jews escape certain death at the hands of the Nazis during World War II—including six people hiding in their home when the family was arrested. Her father died ten days later, but Corrie and her sister Betsy were imprisoned at the Ravensbruck concentration camp. While there, Corrie provided comfort to those jailed with her. And after the war, she returned to the Netherlands and set up a rehabilitation center for concentration camp survivors. She even set up a shelter for the Dutch people who previously worked with the Germans, and it was a visible sign of loving her enemies.

For 40 years, Corrie traveled the world speaking in churches and conferences. She also went to secret Bible study groups in countries where Christians were persecuted for believing in Christ. After hearing Corrie’s story, many people have learned how to forgive and I have gone on to live more peaceful lives.

Corrie was able to do this because she knew that sometimes the hardest trial we face is forgiving our enemies.

The Power to Forgive Your Enemies

Corrie faced hardship in the war, but one of the hardest trials came two years after the war ended. In 1947, Corrie was teaching in Munich, Germany. Germany had just been defeated in World War II, and Corrie had come to the country to share the message of God‘s forgiveness.

Through the crowd, a man approached her. Even though he wore a brown overcoat and hat, she perfectly pictured the blue uniform and the cap with the skull and crossbones of the Nazi SS guard. She knew him. He’d been one of the guards at Ravensbruck.

Pain shot through Corrie‘s chest. Anger and fear filled her mind, and her whole body trembled at seeing him. He had been one of the cruelest guards. She had spoken to many, telling them of God‘s forgiveness, but now — looking at her enemy — she had only hatred for this man in her heart.

“You mentioned Ravensbruck in your talk,“ the man said. “I was a guard there, but since that time I became a Christian. I know that God has forgiven me for the cruel things I did there, but I would like to hear it from your lips as well. Fräulein… Will you forgive me?“ He extended his hand to her.

With his words, a thousand thoughts went through Corrie‘s mind. She remembered how her sister Betsy died in horrible conditions, how so many women had suffered in the camp. Corrie looked at the man’s hand and struggled to extend her hand to him.

This was one of the most difficult things she’d ever faced.

Yet Corrie knew she had to do it. She had to forgive. She thought of Matthew 6:15, “But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.“

Corrie knew that forgiveness wasn’t a feeling. She had to will herself to forgive.

“Jesus, help me!“ She prayed, silently. “I can lift my hand. I can do that much. You supply the feeling.”

Corrie extended her hand to the man before her, and as she did, a miracle happened. A current started in her shoulder, raced down her arm, and sprang into their joined hands. Warmth flooded her whole being.

Tears filled her eyes, “I forgive you, brother. With all my heart.“ God‘s love flowed through Corrie as it never had before, showing that forgiveness is possible even for those who created the greatest offenses against us. Through Corrie’s story, people from all over the world have come to understand the Holocaust better, yet they’ve also come to understand God‘s mercy better, too. And history was forever changed.

The Power to Forgive Your Enemies

The Bible speaks about forgiveness and about loving our enemies. There is no greater example of this than Jesus’ plea for forgiveness for his enemies on the cross:

And when they came to the place that has called the skull, there they crucified him, and the criminals, one on his right and one on his left. And Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.“ And they cast lots to divide his garments… Then Jesus, calling out with a loud voice, said, “Father, into your hands, I commit my spirit!“ And having said that he breathed his last Luke 23:33-34, 46 (ESV)

Jesus is the reason we can be forgiven, and He is the reason we can forgive others. Forgiving others does not mean accepting what they’ve done. It’s not ignoring the hurt. Forgiving others is an extension of what God has done in our lives by forgiving us.

Prayer can help prepare us to forgive others. On the night before He was crucified, Jesus went to the mountain to pray. Prayer strengthens us for what we face and allows God to work through us when we’re willing to seek Him for strength.

Corrie’s family faced horrible pain and loss, yet they stood firm in their faith. They stayed strong because of prayer. For years her family had been praying for the Jewish people, and those prayers prepared them for what was to come. Prayer allowed Corrie’s family to be strong when they were needed to protect others. Prayer also helped Corrie to forgive and to push away the pain and anger and her heart.

The Power to Forgive Your Enemies

Corrie traveled the world, sharing the power of forgiveness. She wrote these words in one of her notebooks. Later these words were published in a book.

“Forgiveness is in the key that unlocks the door of resentment in the handcuffs of hatred. It is the power that breaks the chains of bitterness and the shackles of selfishness.”

Prayers That Changed History

 

Martin Luther. Sojourner Truth. Helen Keller. St. Patrick. We read their stories, and of other people like them, in history books and hear about the amazing things they did to change the world. But one part of the story is often left out: Each one of them wouldn’t have accomplished what they did without prayer.

In Prayers That Changed History, the stories of twenty-five notable people are presented along with how prayer changed their lives and changed history. Following each historical example is a biblical story that ties to that person’s life and actions, as well as ways you can use the power of prayer in your life as well. Because God isn’t done changing the world yet, and he would love to use you to make history.

Perfect for use as a homeschool, Sunday school, or youth Bible study curriculum.

Get your copy of Prayers that Changed History here: Prayers That Changed History.

 

May you be blessed as you pray, forgive, and seek God today, friends.

In Him,

Tricia

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Tips and Tricks for the Productive Writer

These Tips and Tricks for the Productive Writer will help you get organized, prioritize, and finally write that book you’ve been dreaming about all your life. As an author of over 80 published books, I have some insight on this subject and now I’m sharing it with you. So let’s get writing!

Want to Improve Your Writing Productivity? These 10 unexpected ways can help you get organized and focus on writing the book of your heart. 

 

 

 

Tips and Tricks for the Productive Writer

Can I be honest with you? After almost three decades as a writer, (and almost 80 books!) I’ve found what works–and what doesn’t–for me to be productive. In fact, some say I’m one of the most prolific writers they know. While that all seems encouraging and uplifting for me, the truth is I’ve learned lots of “tricks” along the way.

And now, I want to help you Improve Your Writing Productivity by doing what you can, when you can, in the best way you can. And I believe that anyone can use these productivity hacks to get going and finish their best work. That’s why I’m sharing this teaching session from The Sister Circle Event Bundle. This online event is now available through The 2020 Sister Circle Online Event Bundles!

During my session, we tackled:

  1. Choose your friends wisely. Surround yourself with encouraging and inspiring people who believe in your dream.

  2. Consider what you read and what you watch. Is it uplifting, inspiring? (Catching the theme?) Do you feel energized after reading/watching or depressed and drained? (I don’t watch the news for the very reason it fills me with worry and fear.)

  3. Read the Psalms and praise God. Fix your thoughts on Him!

  4. Spend time alone with your spouse. Keep that relationship strong.

  5. Get up and MOVE! I wake up before everyone else and ride my exercise bike for one hour. Just sitting without movement in my day drains me and makes me overwhelmed and tired.

  6. Could you Improve Your Writing Productivity by being present with the people you are with? Yes! Take a break from your smartphone. When my family is around me, my phone is tucked away and I’m fully engaged with them. When they know I’m there for them they are much more supportive of me taking time away to write.

  7. Clean out your emotions. Are you worried about something? Are you sad? Let the emotions out. Sometimes I have a good cry because I miss my son, daughter-in-law, and grandson who live 2,000 miles away. If I try to keep these emotions inside they come out in other ways. I’m gray for weeks and weeks . . . and unproductive.

  8. Get a life coach. I’ve been able to talk through my life with someone who knows how to direct me with questions (and is familiar with the writing business). Without fail, there is some time within each session that I have a “light bulb” moment.

  9. It might seem difficult to ask for help.  But it’s one of the ways to Improve Your Writing Productivity that has been a game-changer for me. It’s crazy how often I struggle without even thinking to ask for help. When I ask my husband or kids to make dinner, watch the toddler, or let me run to Panera for a few hours, they are usually happy to oblige. I just need to ask.

  10. Focus on ONE THING. Pray and ask God for the “one thing” that you need to do at that moment. Sometimes it’s writing. Sometimes it’s something completely different, but whatever it is, do it with ALL your heart, serving God as you work! I hope and pray these 10 Unexpected Ways to Improve Your Writing Productivity can help you put in the time and effort needed to finish the book God has called you to write. Your words matter and the world needs to hear them. Don’t let your life pass you by and regret not sharing your message with the world.

 

And SO MUCH MORE!

While this is not the live experience, this bundle is still packed with practical wisdom to help you navigate the rest of your year well. And the added benefit is hearing me share from my heart in ways you won’t hear anywhere else. I can’t wait for you and I to connect on this important issue of producing the great writing God has called you to create!

Join me, friend! Sign up for The Sister Circle Online Event Bundles here: Sister Circle Event Bundles

 

Warmly,

Tricia

 

P.S. In full disclosure, if you purchase a bundle via my link, I’ll receive a commission. That’s one reason why I only recommend events I truly believe in.

 

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The Miracle at Dunkirk

Have you ever heard of the miracle at Dunkirk? The story is one of God’s people seeking His help and His amazing provision in the face of treacherous odds. When I need a miracle, I always think of Dunkirk and the miraculous way God intervened to save 334,000 men in four days. Let me share the story with you today.

The miracle at Dunkirk

The Miracle at Dunkirk

Great Britain was in trouble. In 1933, Adolph Hitler became the ruler of Germany. By September of 1939, Hitler and his Nazi army were set on controlling all of Europe. First, they invaded Poland, then they took over Norway, Denmark, Holland, Luxembourg, and Belgium without much resistance. It was after that that Hitler turned to France. The French did the best to hold their ground, but after forty days they gave up the fight.

The English people were certain that Hitler would try to dominate their country next. But Winston Churchill, the Prime Minister, wasn’t about to submit so easily. “We would rather go down fighting than being slave to Germany,” he said. They were also worried about the English troops on French soil. Hitler was advancing quickly, and if he continued, their troops would soon be captured or killed. The country needed prayer. Badly. But would they submit to God? Would they turn over their need to him?

At first, on April 1940, the Archbishop of Canterbury did not want to set aside a special day of prayer. He was afraid it would be “misunderstood or rather miss represented by the enemy.”

After all, if they were praying, that would prove they were almost defeated, right?

Soon things got so bad that it didn’t matter what the Germans thought. The British Empire needed prayer… Now. On May 23, King George VI proclaimed a day of national prayer to be held on Sunday, May 26, throughout the empire. Little did he know that his request would come at the exact moment it was needed. On May 24, just a day after the Archbishop had chosen a day of prayer, 500,000 British and French soldiers were trapped on the beach of Dunkirk when the Germans took control of France. Fear gripped the heart of the British people. If the Nazis advanced, it would be easy to wipe out all those men. Husbands, sons, and
brothers would face certain annihilation.

Two days later, on May 26, the British people gathered to pray. They played with God to save the soldiers they loved. The British Broadcasting Corporation broadcast three services. The king and the members of the cabinet attended the services at Westminster Abby. Outside, the church was surrounded by large groups of people who couldn’t get in. Millions of the king’s subjects, in England and all over the world, joined together in churches to pray.

The First Miracle at Dunkirk

Instead of moving in, the Nazis retreated. Hitler stopped the advance of his armored columns right at the point that they could have completely destroyed the Allied forces. Hitler’s own generals didn’t understand this decision. This was the first miracle. Hitler held back, but British leaders didn’t know for how long. England made the decision to evacuate the troops from France, but there was a problem, the only port they could evacuate from was Dunkirk. And that port was being threatened by the Germans. The best estimates were that they’d be able to evacuate only 20 to 30,000 men, perhaps half of the people there.

Then the second miracle occurred on May 28. Storms broke out over Flanders, and Belgium, grounding the German lift Buffay Air Force. They could not bomb any of the Allied troops. This allowed the British army to journey 12 miles to Dunkirk on foot. They walked in the darkness of the storm, but they were safe from bombings and attacks.

The Miracle at Dunkirk

Then the third miracle arrived. For six days following the national Day of prayer, the normally rough waters of the English channel work home. Even though the storm raged so the planes couldn’t fly, the waters remain still. Small boats and yachts, warships, and privately owned cruisers were sent to retrieve them. The channel was so filled it looked like rush-hour traffic on the highway. And on May 29, 47,000 men were rescued. On May 30, 53,000. On May 31, 68,000. Finally, on June 1, 64,000. In total, 334,000 men found their way to safety. British field marshal William Edmond Ironside later wrote, “I still cannot understand how it is that the Germans have allowed us to get our troops off in this way. It is almost fantastic that we have been able to do it in the face of all the bombing and gunning.”

His troops remain in place until early June. God held back Hitler’s hand until all the troops could be safely evacuated. The hand of God was seeing so clearly, that Sunday, June 9, was appointed as a day of national Thanksgiving, and history was changed forever.

All God Asks is that We Turn to Him

In this life, we will face many troubles, but we do not have to face them alone. No matter how far we’ve gone away from God, we can always turn back to him. When we do, he is ready to assist us in amazing ways. When is the right time to pray? Now!

That is what the Lord says:

Turn to me now while there is time. Give me your hearts. Come with fasting, weeping, and morning. Don’t terret your clothing in your grief, but tear your hearts instead. Return to the Lord your God, for he is merciful and compassionate, slow to get angry and filled with unfailing love. He is eager to relent and not punished. Who knows, perhaps he will give you a re-Prive, sending you a blessing instead of this curse. Perhaps you will be able to offer grain and wine to the Lord your God as before.

Joel 2:12-14 NLT

 

Something to Think About

Do you need a miracle today? Have you prayed about it? Sometimes we wait before praying. Why? What did the British people discover when they gathered together to pray? They saw God move in amazing ways and so can you!

What do you need to pray about? Who can you get to join you?

 

Prayers That Changed History

This post was adapted from my book, Prayers That Changed History—the stories of twenty-five notable people and how prayer changed their lives and changed history. Following each historical example is a biblical story that ties to that person’s life and actions, as well as ways you can use the power of prayer in your life as well. Because God isn’t done changing the world yet, and he would love to use you to make history.

 

Get your copy here: Prayers That Changed History


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