Are you wondering how to find more joy this Christmas? Does the thought of the holidays stress you out? Are you more focused on your to-do list than the true meaning of the season? Do you stay up at night worrying about how you’re going to do it all? Let’s talk about what you can do to focus on the true meaning of the season this year, friends.
How to Find More Joy This Christmas
I spent many years struggling with holiday anxiety, worrying about all the things I wasn’t doing “right”. The thought of Christmas brought dread, not joy. Then, one year, I decided to make a change. What’s the use of spending hours baking when I was cranky with my family? What was the point of attending tons of holiday events when I didn’t have time to celebrate simple, holiday traditions? That’s when I decided not to let myself get wrapped up in the holiday chaos and, instead, begin to focus on what would bring joy to my Christmas. Here are five ways I found worked for me:
1. Focus on three favorite Christmas traditions, instead of trying to do everything.
Trying to do everything will make you tired and overwhelmed. By choosing your favorite traditions you can take time to really enjoy them. The three traditions we chose were decorating the Christmas tree together, driving around to look at Christmas lights, and decorating sugar cookies. Focusing on a few simple things was more fun for everyone.
2. Lower your expectations.
In our minds, we picture our time together as a family reflective of those holiday Hallmark commercials, and we’re highly disappointed when they don’t turn out that way. Realize that your kids will be messy when making cookies. Know that your opinionated aunt will still be opinionated at those holiday gatherings. Try to be realistic when making plans, instead of being a disappointment in the long run.
3. Put away your wallet and connect with your heart.
Instead of spending hours hunting down the perfect gift, spend that time with your kids. Kids love time with their parents playing and laughing. Let them choose the game or activity. Pick a holiday movie to watch together. Get on the floor and build Santa’s Workshop with Legos. Dance to your favorite holiday songs.
4. Focus on the true meaning of the season.
Too often we get distracted from what Christmas is all about. During the weeks before Christmas the one thing that settles my soul is centering my thoughts on Jesus. I do this through daily Bible reading and prayer. One great reading plan is FREE from BibleStudyTools.com. I love this plan because it includes Scriptures from the Old and New Testaments.
5. Memorize a Scripture verse.
Whenever frantic thoughts try to invade you this season replace them with God’s truth. Here’s a verse to memorize: “For a child is born to us, a son is given to us. The government will rest on his shoulders. And he will be called: Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace,” Isaiah 9:6 (NLT). Plant God’s Word in your heart and pull it up whenever you feel yourself becoming worried or fretful. God’s Word reminds us who the true gift of Christmas is. We can remember no matter what we have or don’t have this holiday season the gift of Jesus is always available, always free, and always just what we need to bring us joy.
How about you? What brings you Christmas joy?
Share your answer with me in the comments!