Time to Evaluate My Life!
In my book Balanced, one of the things I encourage women to do is take an honest look at their lives, and to come up with a “Yeah! list” of things they’re doing great at, and a “Fail! list” of areas they feel they’re falling short. I thought I’d take my own advice. Here is the list of the first things that popped into my mind today:
- I’m keeping up with Reading Through the Bible this year!
- I’m reading a fun “chapter book” with my kids: Hitty: Her First Hundred Years. I always enjoy these moments, and I know they do, too.
- I’m trying to do special things for my husband . . . like making his favorite pie. I can tell he likes to be surprised in these ways.
- I’ve said no to some writing, ministry, and speaking opportunities, even though they sounded super fun, because I know doing too much is hard on my family.
- I’m helping to connect blogger friends for support and encouragement.
- I’m not going a very good job connecting with my older kids. The little ones are so needy.
- I’m not doing a very good job at spending time managing business things beyond my computer screen—like the piles on my desk, on my floor, on the guest bed!
- I’m doing OK at maintaining my weight-loss, but I need more “umph” to lose the last twenty pounds!
The Evaluation of my Evaluation
OK, the truth is, I had an easier time thinking of things on the fail list first. And I know I could have come up with more, but those three fails are the things that really stood out.
In Balanced I encourage readers to take a look at their failures and ask, “Do I need to make changes in this area, or do I need to give myself grace?”
As I took these things before God (as I asked my readers to do) I realize none of them are really failures. I do spend time talk to, Skyping with, and hanging out with my older kids. Yet I also need to be proactive to reach out to them, help them, and encourage them.
I do need time to sort through the things on my desk, so I write this into my schedule. (Is it really that hard to sort through papers? Sometimes I think it is, but I can pray and ask for strength for things like this, too.)
Finally, my weight, which has been a life-long challenge, is again another reminder that I need to turn to God. I need to seek Him for my comfort and pleasure. I also need to remember to thank Him for helping me make it this far (forty-five pounds down!). I need to rejoice in what He’s doing in my life even though I haven’t “arrived.”
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Exactly what I needed to read tonight. I tend to focus a lot on failures and shortcomings. I know I need to give myself grace. So hard when it seems like so much is on you… marriage, kids, work (NyreePress). Tonight, I’m praying God would just hug me and help me give myself grace, and more faith.
Tricia Goyer says
God will show you, Kennisha. You’re so much like me!