There are some things I forgot in the sixteen years between babies, such as the dangers of tablecloths.
As soon as Alyssa was old enough to sit in a high chair she was drawn to tugging on the tablecloth. DRAWN.
When a baby is 5 months old it’s pretty cute. “Oh, look at that, she can grab it.” With a few weeks it was no longer cute. She’d grab, pull and soon whole place settings were dangerously close to being hurled onto her highchair tray.
From the beginning I knew I couldn’t let this become a habit. It became her first “no.”
“No, don’t touch that.” (Remove little bitty hand.)
“No. What did mama say?”
“Alyssa, mommy said no.”
Scooting her high chair back worked, but there were times I forgot or someone else was feeding and didn’t know. Within minutes she’d be reaching for the tablecloth to give it a yank.
This is still a work in progress, and the other family members are working to help me break this habit. We all know what could happen. There could be something hot on the table and she’d give the tablecloth a big yank. Ouch.
The thing is, at 8 months old now, she knows better. Before she reaches for the tablecloth she looks at me. She makes eye contact. She smiles. She knows what I want. (Her not to touch it.) She knows what she wants. (To pull on it.) She knows.
Today I learned a new lesson. She’s able to crawl to the table, reach up, and pull. Thankfully, the only thing she pulled down on her was a power cord for my notebook computer, but it made me realize another step of training we need to work on.
Now, some of you may be saying, “Just take off the tablecloth.” Well, it’s not that easy. It’s a new table. It needs to be protected. More than that my baby needs to learn. She needs to learn to listen and obey. She needs to learn that I say what I say to keep her out of danger, not just because I don’t want her to have fun. Besides, in life–as we explore the world–there will be other places with table clothes. She will carry this lesson into life.
Of course, I can’t help but to work through this training while also thinking of my own life, my own training, and how God tries to “work” with me. It makes me consider what “tablecloths” I’m drawn to. Things that seem fun and innocent but that God knows can lead to danger ahead. And usually I know too.
Thankfully, that in life the training will continue. There will always be something else to work on. There are things that are “no” for a reason, and in life we need to accept that. We need to teach that.
What about you? How are you working this out with your own children. With yourself?
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What a great reminder. My kids are really struggling with whining and “entitlement,” but we’re definitely working through it. For me…oh so many things – but mostly prioritizing my time.